What is this concept of real social dynamics? How does it play into guys being more successful with women?
Real social dynamics is seduction, which really focus’ on a natural game in developing people from the inside out and developing a philosophy over a number of years. It’s a real step in the right direction for the dating community who at one point will focused on building up a shiny armour that surrounded a guy but did nothing to actually give him the skills to be able to take full advantage of that armour.
As we move into a new millennium, the focus starts to shift. Now the focus is not so much on how can we give guys the skills to attract women but where and how can we setup a larger file that naturally brings women into our life.
In terms of lifestyle design, it’s important that we think about having as many different streams for meeting women as possible. Going back ten years ago, the only method of meeting women was at night clubs and parties and usually that would happen on weekends and a Friday night.
However, there are a whole variety of avenues to meeting women.
You can meet through your social circle, during the day, online chat rooms, singles events as well as meeting girls through the different activities that you do.
So guys, you want to be out there to essentially set things up so that you can become passive. Passive means you don’t have to do anything but be yourself and you’ll naturally pull women towards you. I think that’s the new direction that the dating scene is heading to.
It seems good news for most guys that Real Social Dynamics is based in a guy’s own reality rather than just putting in a lot of work. Is that a distinct shift that has taken place recently or have there been streams of the dating community that have always been that way?
I think that’s a new movement and it’s an incredibly positive one. What I was experiencing when I first started going out and meeting women was that it wasn’t actually fun. One of the most important things along this journey is that it needs to be fun. It needs to be exciting.
If you feel like you’re clocking in and going to work every time you want to pick up girls and you feel like you’re constantly having to pump yourself up and get motivated to approach women, then you’re doing it wrong.