I am going to give you the one piece of free relationship advice that is going to make your relationships stronger and longer lasting than ever. It is going to make your girlfriend or wife addicted to you, and make them appreciate you a lot more. It is really easy to learn and will even make you a better person.
First, before I go into fully blown dating and relationship advice, I want you to imagine your favorite food. Now, imagine eating your favorite food for two consecutive months and nothing else. What do you think is going to happen?
You will get sick of your favorite food, right?
The same principle applies with women. If you are around your woman all the time and have no other life but with her, she is going to get sick of you. Any attraction is going to quickly wear off. It is important that you bring a little bit of scarcity into your relationship. I am going to explain how you can do this with my advice about relationships.
Guys – don’t forget about yourself!
I want to mention how important it is to value your time. A famous quote by Rick Warren: “Time is your most precious gift, because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, but you can’t make more time. When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you’ll never get back. Your time is your life.”
A woman will not become more attracted to you simply because you are spending lots of time with her. She will be attracted to you because the time that she has with you is quality time. It is very important that you are selective with your time. Instead of just handing it out on a platter, you need to use it in the best possible way you can think of.
For example, putting some time into a new business venture or educating yourself is going to help you in your career. Perhaps investing time in a hobby or passion like playing the guitar or training for a marathon could help you better yourself and grow as a person. The benefit of doing this is you are becoming a more attractive person as you become more selective with your time. You are investing in yourself and becoming a better-rounded individual.
Don’t forget about your friends…
Next: dedicate some time to your friends. You could have a guy’s weekend or catch up with friends you have not seen for a while. Perhaps you could grow your social circle so you have different people in your life.
It is very common for people in a relationship to cut a lot of their friends out of the picture. They cut a lot of the social activities out and stop pursuing the passions they did previously, before they got into a relationship. This is almost like putting your own life on hold – relationships should be the start of something new, not the end of something old. So, remember there is more to life than your relationship and you will be surprised to find how much more you get out of it.