Wondering how to be sure you are happy in your relationship?
If you are like most guys you developed your first “serious” relationship in college. You might have thought everything was going on smoothly and then “BAM…” You get “the speech.”
“We need to talk…” or “It’s not you, it’s me…” or “I just don’t feel the same way… I can’t believe you didn’t see this coming.”
You may have dated one girl, ten or hundreds but the truth remains the truth. If she and you are not happy, then it’s not going to work. Period.
This website is full of articles for guys facing any situation. Whether it be relationship advice, new advice on dating, how to be a better you, or how to get a girlfriend, Vin DiCarlo has something for everyone. Are you facing a situation where you need dating advice to keep her happy, and be happy yourself?
Here are some two valuable tips on where to start and how to begin…
happiness is what you make of it
***And please take a few seconds and share one of your frustrations with making your relationship happy in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer personally.
Step 1: Focus on your own happiness.
It’s great that you have an appreciation for your girlfriend and want to make her happy, but that line of thinking can get guys into a lot of trouble. Ultimately the only person that can make someone happy is themselves. How to find happiness starts with making yourself happy first, that is going to assist your relationship and you’ll find that your partner will be more comfortable with it.
The other component with this is that women ultimately want to please their men. Whilst this isn’t common knowledge for guys who haven’t had a lot of dating experience, when they get the opportunity to be with a girl who goes out of her way to please him they’ll recognize how happy she becomes because of it. Happiness is often dependent on the happiness of others. It’s an awesome feeling to get a girlfriend who loves to please her man.
Step 2: Don’t try and force happiness in a relationship.
What you have to do is just let the relationship naturally evolve. Focus on appreciation, focus on what it is that you appreciate about the girl and how you can communicate better so that she fully understand your appreciation for her. Focus on enjoying this time that you spend together and make sure that the time is packed full of quality.
I would much rather spend time with someone putting an emphasis on the quality of that time. I may only spend an hour with her, but we make sure we fully immerse ourselves in each other. We spend a lot of time being intimate with each other, looking into each other’s eyes, cuddling, or gently massaging each other rather than spending three or four hours together watching TV or not really connecting.
If you put all those things together you will find that relationships will naturally evolve. You’ll be happy because you’ll feel fulfilled, your girlfriend will be happy because she’s fulfilling you and the relationship will be working together.
***Remember: please take about 12 seconds or so and share one of your relationship frustrations in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer personally.
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