What is your opinion of John Gray and his relationship advice? What did he contribute to the dating community? Is he someone that needs to be explored more?
I think John Gray’s contribution to the dating world was that he brought to our attention to the fact that there are differences between men and women, and they are completely inherent – innate. It’s important for us to recognize them because what it allows us to do is to become compassionate to the opposite sex. It allows us to understand them differently.
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So let’s just recognize some of the ways in which women are different.
First, women are far more responsive to emotional experiences than men. So if you sit down and you’re a fly on the wall in a group of men that are getting together in a social setting, you’ll notice that they’ll talk a lot about sex. They’ll talk about what they did; they’ll talk about where they went; they’ll talk about how much it cost; and they’ll talk about when they’re going to be doing it again.
Whereas women, if you’re a fly on the wall in a social setting with them, they’ll be more likely to talk about the emotions of the experience. So they’ll talk about how it made them feel when they were in a certain environment. They’ll talk about how it made them feel when they were able to spend five days away from work. So their focus is definitely more on emotions. A lot of the time, men miss this, and they try to talk to women in terms of the language of facts. It just doesn’t work. They just don’t get a very good response.
Some other unique aspects to the male-female dynamic, is the ability to be dominant, and the ability to be submissive.
Whilst there are more and more women in today’s environment that are comfortable with showing a little bit of dominance, it’s part of their genetic makeup that they like to be submissive. They like to be led by a powerful man who is completely confident in himself, and completely self-assured. If they find the right man, they will be very open to relaxing into him and letting him take the lead.
Now, in the modern society, I think a lot of men have got that backwards, because they go out to a club environment, and they see smoking hot girls dancing on the dance floor. And what is their response?
All the guys are standing on the edges of the dance floor leering on. They feel like women have the dominant social power, and so they feel like they have to respond and be a little bit submissive. They feel like they have to go and buy a girl a drink. But a lot of the time girls just don’t respond to that type of behavior.
So I think John Gray really needs to be credited for bringing people’s attention to this concept, and probably giving rise to opportunities such as this particular forum, where we can take those philosophies that John Gray started to explore and deepen our understanding of them. I think the Pandora’s Box Program is an example, a really great program with dating advice that does that on a whole other level that’s unlike anything else.
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