Relationship counseling can help you get back together.
But there are also other things you can do… today.
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An opportunity in disguise.
I feel when a relationship falls apart, it’s an opportunity in many ways. You get to explore which part of the relationship broke down, and become a better person for it. I will relate to an experience of mine that is very personal to me. It concerns one of the girlfriends that I had when I had been in the community for about seven consecutive years. I hadn’t been in any sort of exclusive relationships; I had only been in open relationships and most of my relationships had been heavily focused around sex.
A personal story…
That was the primary reason for which we were getting together. I was good at sex, and I was comfortable with the idea of being a sexual creature. Women resonated with that and responded warmly to my direct nature. When I got into this new relationship, it started out in the same way – based on sex. For three months we were completely in an open relationship. Then, as we spent more and more time together I found myself not wanting to go out and spend time with my mates; not wanting to go out and pick up other women. I just wanted to sit down and watch a DVD with this girl. I felt myself sleeping over more and more often.
We started to progress things toward a more exclusive type of relationship. What happened through that process was that I started to feel like I couldn’t be the sexual creature I had been before. Particularly when my girlfriend said things to me like, “This relationship is pretty much ninety percent based on sex.”
I took that as a negative, rather than seeing it as a positive that we had great sex. I felt like I was lacking in other areas, so I started to put less focus on going after and wanting sex; and more focus on trying to build a connection. Six months down the road, I felt that our relationship started to fall apart.
I could sense it, so what that did was it gave me an opportunity to build some self awareness and to ask myself: where did this start to fall apart?
Be a man…
I was able to join the dots and recognize that I had stopped being the man in the relationship. We had two women in the relationship, and I was not leading the relationship in the sexual direction like I had been doing previously. That provided an opportunity because now I could take a second look at our relationship. I had the chance to revisit and change my approach; and through that I was able to change the direction of my relationship and bring it back on track. Had it not been for the challenge, and the ability to see the opportunity that was hidden within it, I would have never been able to improve the relationship and take it to a whole new level.
What can you do?
Guys need to look at themselves, expand their self awareness, and recognize what they can change in themselves. Try not to change the woman – try to change yourself. If you change yourself and fix up your issues, you’ll find the woman will naturally fix herself up too, because you will lead by example and she will be more than happy to emulate.
And you can always use these questions to turn on ANY woman…
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