Time to spice it up.
If your relationship is in a rut then break out of the rut now.
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I would first maybe look at planning a getaway together; this could be introducing dating romance back into the equation or an adventurous getaway. This is where both of you have some alone time, you are out of your normal environment, and you just get a chance to spend some quality time together. It also breaks up the monotony of life a little bit. It gives you a chance to clear your head and spend some cool, fun quality time together.
Get close again.
The next thing is, a lot of the time when we get into relationship ruts, the level of intimacy between both of you deteriorates. We either too tired or too bored and we are not really spending enough intimate moments together. This could be due to lack of time because of work commitments or having kids who demand a lot of your time. If this is sapping all your energy then it is time to start scheduling times to have intimacy and sex.
Start to make it more a part of your calendar, because you do not want to lose that part. That is the glue, which connects you both together. You want to make that a very important priority in your relationship.
Remember the past.
The next thing is to remind yourself about what were the things that attracted you to your partner in the first place. Remind yourself as well as tell your partner. You constantly need to enforce that the things that attracted you in the beginning, are still attracting you today. It’s very important to let that other person know because, over time, we start to question whether the feelings are deteriorating or not. If you are able to say, “I feel the same for you as I did the first time I met you,” it just really helps to let the other person know where they stand in the relationship.
Look for opportunities to pamper each other and spoil each other a little bit. Maybe your wife or partner is feeling a little low. You might want to go out and buy her a massage voucher or, book a double massage. Even better, why not give her a massage yourself. Pamper her a little bit.
If the shoe is on the other foot and you are working hard and feel that you have not had much time for yourself – then maybe you need to pamper yourself. Perhaps you need to arrange a boy’s weekend away with your friends or indulge in a spa treatment. If you give each other some space and have a break, both of you will feel a little bit more refreshed and appreciative of one another.
And always ask her these 3 questions…
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