Stop and pay attention…
Before you show up in a costume you’re sure will drive her wild, check to make sure she’s interested and make sure to follow these fool-proof rules, so you don’t find yourself in Rejection City. Discover how to master the fine art of “Sexperimenting”…
You could be her helpful train conductor.
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To start Sexperimenting… start small.
This all really depends on how much experience you have, and whether you can find activities that excite her as much as they excite you. There’s really no point in getting into costumes if you think it’s just a means to an end. If it’s something you both genuinely want to explore and something she feels open to, then role-play costumes can definitely spice things up.
The great thing about experimenting with role-play is that you both won’t feel so judged. You won’t feel stuck in who you are, so it lets you play around and explore things. It’s almost as though you become childlike again. Doing that can make you say and do things that you probably would never have done otherwise, and in revealing more about yourself, you inevitably strengthen the bond between you both.
A costume helps you get to know you…
It’s like exploring parts of yourself that perhaps you’ve neglected for a long time, or that you didn’t think were there. It gives you a safe environment to express these elements of yourself in a playful way. That can be incredibly beneficial, not just for the relationship, but for yourself. Because there might be parts of you that aren’t being expressed in everyday life – be it your assertiveness or another quality – such experimentation gives you an opportunity to do just that, and you’re going to feel much more comfortable about yourself because of it.
As far as advice on becoming more comfortable in your own skin… here are some questions from readers:
- Does role-play can release aspects of someone’s character and personality that are repressed in everyday life?
- Would you also suggest trying new activities in life outside the bedroom?
There’s no harm in that. The truth is there are so many things out there to explore, that the only way you can really know what you stand for or who you are is to go out there and try these new things – learn by trial and error if need be – because you might actually discover an enormity of new activities you enjoy.
By doing that outside of the bedroom, you’ll probably be more open to trying it in the bedroom too. Women definitely want to explore a lot more than men seem to think. Men seem to be a little bit caught up in thinking that the ways in which they know how to have sex with a woman are very limited. It definitely helps to just have a curiosity and a bit of an open mind to experimentation. If one of you really doesn’t like them, you don’t have to ever do them again.
***Remember: Please share one of your dating frustrations in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer your comment personally.
3 powerful questions you want to know…
And if you want to discover the kinky mind-blowing desires she really wants you to try you might like to learn how to ask her the 3 powerful questions revealed in this free video. These 3 questions are guaranteed to allow you to get into her mind, understand her heart, and figure out the passionate desires she wants to unleash on you…
Go get it now before you scare her off or bore her to death trying everything that she hates…
