How can you eliminate the fear?
When it comes to the art of seduction, fear is one of the most debilitating states of mind you can have. Fear halts all action. It makes guys tense, anxious, and paralyzed. Fear essentially makes all your other seduction techniques useless.
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Feelings of social anxiety, nervousness, and panic are all just different forms of fear.
If you find yourself in a near state of panic over the very thought of approaching a woman, you are definitely suffering from some form of fear. Maybe you have tons of negative thoughts like, “She is way better than me,” “I have no idea what to say to HER,” or “I will wait until I’m looking/feeling better.” Maybe you even rationalize these fears away giving yourself excuses, instead of going up and living the life that you want right now. The good thing is that with some practice you can eliminate your fear and put yourself back in the seduction game. In fact, you can demolish your fear and get any girl that you want.
Where do you start?
The first step in the School of Seduction is to determine your source of fear and then kick its proverbial ass. If you have overall problems with anxiety, you need to find what makes you anxious all the time and try to conquer that feeling. The best thing to do is get help from someone you trust. Go see a counselor, talk to a close friend, or check out a support group about social anxiety. You don’t want to try to fight this alone, because this is a big beast to fight. Why not get help and beat it sooner?
Fear is written in our code…
If you only feel scared at certain points, like when you’re about to make a move on a woman, you are probably just dealing with whatever scares you at that particular moment. This is completely normal and 90% of people report feeling fear in these situations. You could be a calm, cool, and collected guy for most of the time, but in that very moment, fear could hit you like a sudden sense of vertigo. If you were to look back in our DNA, you would find this fear associated with things that could get us killer. Now this usually comes from being in a society that places a lot of value on what other people think of you. If you were outcast by society then this would have some serious consequences to your life. But for most people this fear gets blow out of porportion somewhere down the line and starts to own you.
Become aware of fear…
A lot of the time, fear is just a little voice in your head. It tells you that you don’t want to do something differently. It tells you that you don’t want to change. It tells you that you don’t want to put yourself on the spot. It creates all of these fantastical scenarios that usually aren’t rooted in reality. In fact, if you were to listen to that voice intently you would see that most of these fears are completely irrational. The problem comes when you feel that gut reaction to the fearful thoughts you are having and then you avoid the action. You probably never even realize the out of control thoughts you are having. That little ego or voice in your head can create a lot of fear and make it hard for you to seduce a woman.
To eliminate fear, you need to assess your source of fear and determine what kind of fear is false and what kind is real. Logically you know that talking to a girl does not put your life in danger. Unless you are trying to seduce a lioness or a woman who is trying to audit you, there is no real reason to be afraid. If you can differentiate the kind of fear you would feel, if a train was speeding towards you from the kind of fear that makes you think you might strike out with a woman, you’ll be able to eliminate your fear with logic. Someone putting a gun to your head is real fear. Someone possibly going on a date with you is an illogical fear. You just need to flip the switch when you’re paralyzed by a fear that is unfounded in reality, so you can put things in perspective.
Go at your fear…
The best way to conquer fear is to move into it. Just slowly edge out of your comfort zone. Do things that are new to you. Do things you haven’t done before. When it comes to seduction, you are constantly pushing yourself into fearful situations that make you nervous. You just have to remind yourself that even though coming on to a woman can be scary, you are not in any real danger.
If you want to do some further reading on fear and seduction, I recommend a book called “Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway.” Study that book. Study fear itself. Then step right into one of those fearful seduction situations and eliminate your fear time and time again. It may be hard at first, but with a little help from the School of Seduction and a little faith in yourself, you will eventually be able to eliminate fear whenever it strikes.
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