Seduction failure has struck all of us at one time or another.
The question is, how do we get over it, how do we beat it?
Here’s how you can beat failure’s ass… (and maybe spank hers).
So you’ve mustered up the courage to go and say hi, introduce yourself, say something situational or maybe you’ve even really felt super confident and gone and given her a compliment. But she shoots you down. Or maybe straight out ignores you. Or maybe even doesn’t hear you right. Do you know what to do?
Just try again.
Okay, calm down, the first step is to GET BACK UP! If you want to get really good with women, or even if you just want to improve a little bit, the golden rule is don’t let failure get you down. In fact, you want to encourage failure. It may sound strange but the guys who learn the most are the ones who have been shot down the most, only difference between them and the guys who struggle for long periods of time and learn really slowly is the first guy gets straight back up and goes in again, and again, and again. Get back on that horse! So to speak.
Know you will get shot down.
Those successful guys KNOW they’re going to get shot down but do it anyway; they don’t shy away from it. One other major factor is that this first guys LEARNS FROM HIS MISTAKES. The second guy complains and might approach one girl a month, he’ll get shot down then run away and retreat into his bedroom for another month before he builds up the courage to go back out and try again.
It is just like learning to walk.
Visualize your way to overcoming seduction failure by thinking back to when you were a baby, an infant and you’re sitting on the floor playing with your toys. You’ve being doing that for some time and you want to join the walking around gang. It’s time to stand up. So, you hall yourself up with the help of the coffee table and you pluck up the courage to take your first step. Now what happens? You fall down. You might even cry a little, that’s OK. But imagine if you were like, “This is too hard. I’m not going to get back up” or you just say, “I’m just going to crawl for the rest of my life,” you’d never learn how to walk. You’d still be, however old you are now, crawling around. I guess what I’m saying is – be like you were when you were a child and have that tenacity and have that determination that a child has, no fear almost.
You aren’t a failure…
A child doesn’t look at himself falling down as failure. He’s like, “It’s just a stepping stone and I really need to walk because it feels right,” so he doesn’t blame himself. He doesn’t start that negative self-talk. That child just gets back up. There’s no thought. It’s just like it has to be done.
Failure is how we grow.
It’s the same concept here. Failure is not something to be shy away from. If you’re not having failures in your life, it means you’re not learning and if you’re letting failures get you down. Learning and growth is something that we need as humans. It’s actually one of our primary needs to have a sense that we’re growing and learning things. So encourage failure!! Risk failure! Lock in some activities you KNOW you’re not gonna succeed at first off, and start learning them, this will help you in your process to overcome fear of rejection and help you develop that water-off-a-ducks-back mentality – a highly attractive trait.
Then ask her these 3 questions…
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