Any tips on seduction for beginners?
Sure do… if you don’t have much experience with women, you can still learn to be an expert seducer.
Let’s start by celebrating your start.
I can get almost any girl I want now. I have so much experience that it is almost too easy. But I remember those day when I was clueless about women. I was so excited, yet anxious to start getting better that is was such an exciting time. Too many guys think way to far in the future, because of the anxiety they are currently feeling. This is a shame, because the stage you are in is a really fun one.
I’d suggest that you start with a mindset of really appreciating the journey you are on. You will get there… I promise. Have faith and confidence that you will get there, because you will… no matter how bad you think it is now. I had no faith I would get there, yet you know my story. You are no different than me. I wish I would have looked around a bit more and really just settled into my journey. I wish I would have had more fun with the journey and the missions and approaches and focused less on my results.
The guys who I coach who have the quickest success are the guys who just dive in and have fun. Sure… they make mistakes or get rejected, but they don’t let it phase them. Their attitude is go make mistakes early and often. They go talk to as many women as they can, then they laugh their heads off about how fun this is later.
Maybe this type of guy is not you, right now. That is okay. I promise you will get there, just start taking it one step at at time. Take it one conversation at a time. Let’s dive into the meat of this article now and help you improve quickly.
Do you have questions about seduction for beginners? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer each one personally.
The truth of the matter is that most guys who aren’t flirting with women, probably aren’t comfortable in the presence of women.
This is a simple fix that just requires time. You need to go hang out with more women. Focus on getting a lot more experience and getting more comfortable in the presence of women. Those two things can completely transform your outlook on seduction and they take much less time than you think. You are probably approaching a woman all nervous and uncomfortable which is going to show. She’s going to respond by being just as uncomfortable and probably put off. That is not what you want when you are trying for seduction. You want it to flow naturally and freely.
There aren’t shortcuts, but if you start now, it will come quicker than you think.
Where can you start?
The best way I recommend for someone who’s pretty new to this stuff, is simply to go on a lot more dates, it doesn’t even matter who the girl is, or how you end up getting those dates, it could be even going to a speed dating event, or events where the girls are already looking for a guy to go on dates with. It’s a lot easier to pick up single women who are looking, than necessarily going out to a bar where there’s a lot of competition. You don’t want to jump in the deep end when you should be splashing in the shallow. Take it in small steps and tackle obstacles that are easy. These will give you the confidence to go after bigger and bigger obstacles.
Start with women friends…
I can’t stress enough for guys to do is to go make more friends with women. Get more women in your life! Surround yourself with more women. It doesn’t even have to be women that you’re going to sleep with; just have more women in your life. The more women you have around you, the more comfortable you are going to be about approaching women outside your social group. Those guys who are great at seduction have had tons of practice, and I guarantee they know a lot of women, and that is why they are so comfortable around them.
The more you can understand how the female mind works, the easier it is going to be for you to connect with her. Women are very different than men and they must be treated differently. The best advice on seduction for beginners is to:
1. Hang out with more women (which we covered).
2. Keep hanging out with more women.
3. Go meet more women.
Are you noticing a trend here? You can’t learn this stuff by reading about it. You have to go do it in real life. Don’t be scared of mistakes, but you should be scared of inaction.
Something you’ll notice with guys who are really good with women, is they have a lot of women in their lives and not necessarily women that they’re sleeping with, just women that are friends or even women that they’ve slept with in the past who are still in their lives. Get used to having lots of women in your life, get used to talking to them, and just getting more comfortable with women. The great thing about having female friends is it gives you an opportunity to practice touching women in an environment where it doesn’t have to be a big deal and you don’t have to worry about being rejected. A female friend isn’t going to get offended if you touch her arm, and that gives you an insight on how women react to what.
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