There are plenty of rookies to the seduction game, who need to work on their skills and improve on the art of seducing women.
Most guys aren’t taught anything about seduction.
Maybe they learn it from movies they’ve watched or from talking to their friends. Unfortunately, the information these guys receive will not help them be more seductive. Most Hollywood movies present an unrealistic and even destructive view on the art of seduction. If you watched enough movies you would think that a Jon Cusack-like move of waiting outside your crush’s house with a boombox playing her favorite music will seduce her. This is way wrong.
If you want to improve you seduction skills, I applaud you and I want to encourage you. I’ve watched guys go from having zero skills to being experts and I know that you can do the same. It won’t be easy… it isn’t like taking a nap. You will be challenging yourself every day, but in the end you will learn to enjoy the challenge. You will love the challenge and being able to watch yourself transform into the type of man that you want to be.
Plus, you will get to experience more and more women. As you have success, things will get easier and easier. If you are thinking it will take years, you will notice as you start progressing, you will be feeling better and better. You don’t need to be an expert to feel amazing about your seduction skills… you probably just need to feel like you are improving.
You are either moving forward or backward.
The best seduction skills happen when you are relaxed and being yourself
I have three tips on how you can learn the seduction skills of the experts.
My three tips for learning seduction skills are to: Work on your social skills first. Work on yourself, build up your confidence, and yourself respect and yourself acceptance. My final tip is, to get out there, all in your face, and try things. Do each of those three things and you’ll learn so much more and get so much better.
How can you start learning these things?
Let’s start with the first thing. I’m going to give you a mission straight away. All of next week, every day, I want you to make an effort, of at least 30 minutes a day, to go outside and talk to somebody. Talk to anyone and everyone. It can be small things. It can be discussing the weather, asking how to find a particular place or even asking the time. Just get out and speak to people, it doesn’t have to be all women, just anyone. The more you can get into this habit the more you’ll be training your social muscle, and the more you train that social muscle, the easier and the quicker you’ll be to respond when you want to go up and meet a woman.
Now on to the next point of learning to seduce women; working on yourself.
Too many guys are looking for a magic solution to getting better with women. But a lot of these guys just simply don’t have self confidence or a strong sense of self esteem. A small thing that you can do, and something you can check out, is the Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Brandon. This is a great book that teaches you a technique that you can use at home of doing sentence stem completions. It isn’t all one big thing, it’s a lot of small skills that need to be learned to make you more confident in yourself.
What the sentence stem completions do is help you to start to unravel from your unconscious certain things that you can work on. These are things that you aren’t addressing, so you can start to address them. I highly recommend for a guy who wants to get on top of working on his self esteem to check that book out. Just like anything else, seducing women starts with you. You have to be comfortable with yourself and in yourself before a woman is going to be comfortable with you. Self esteem and self confidence are key things to learn before trying to pick up women.
Building up your experience…
Finally you want to focus on getting as much experience as you can. It’s really simple. Just get out there and start talking to women. The worst that could happen is you don’t get anywhere with women. The guys who learn the quickest are the guys who make the most mistakes. But the best that could happen is you start to get so much more comfortable, relaxed and familiar with talking to women and being in the presence of women. Focus on these things before anything else and you’ll definitely get a lot better.
Don’t focus on the pressure of meeting a woman; remember comfort and confidence are key! Don’t make meeting women a huge deal in your head. You will be creating a block that sets yourself up for failure. You already know how to have conversations on some level. You do it with the people you are comfortable with, when you are talking about something you care about. Now if you can learn to make more connections in your conversations to things you care about, then you can start having conversations about almost anything.
At first your brain will work against you… you will have fear and when we are fearful our brains don’t work as well. However, if you keep at it, then you can be really natural with women in no time. This is the best way to seduce women… when you are in a natural and relaxed state.
Do you have questions about seduction? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer each one personally.
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