Does watching videos on the art of seduction produce a high success rate?
When guys watch seduction videos and the video makes seduction look like some big deal, or that picking up girls is a big deal, it can give them a false sense of difficulty. It’s really not difficult to seduce a woman. It’s quite easy — but when guys start to watch the videos by these so-called seduction masters, they start thinking to themselves, “I could never do what they’re doing.”
Guess what, guys? Most of those videos are edited to look a lot better than how seduction goes down in real life.
I’ll be honest: a lot of times, when things go well with a woman, to most people observing, it would look like nothing’s happening at all. When you can get to this level of smoothness, that’s when you’re really learning to be a seducer. Don’t focus too much on techniques, or worry about too many routines.
Believe it or not, you are attractive! You just don’t realize it yet.
Start to focus on you, and focus on your lifestyle. Start being someone with an attractive lifestyle. When you can do that, without relying on learning skills from any video, you’ll already have started drawing more women — and more opportunities to meet women — into your life.
The other issue with seduction videos is that guys tend toward a very logical approach. Often, when they start to learn skill sets, they look at things as a very logical, step-by-step process, or see some seduction master’s success and then they just try and copy the exact same thing he did.
A good metaphor to describe this is that men look at sex learning — especially as depicted in videos — as a step by step method. They think about it like reading instructions to putting together a bedroom scene. If these men were cooking, and the recipe said to add three cups of flour? They’d pour exactly three cups of flour, because that’s what they’ve been instructed to do by the recipe.
But women approach things differently. They’ll let a their intuition and gut feelings help them. To continue with the recipe metaphor, they might measure three cups of flour because the recipe said to. But what they’re making, and why, and all kinds of other variables including whether they’ve made it before or they know someone else who has — might change how much of those three cups they actually pour.
Seduction isn’t a cake recipe, but it has some of the same principles. Remember this when watching a seduction video, or learning techniques from someone else. There are far too many variables in your own situation as compared to the made-up one in a seduction video. There’s far too much going on to be strictly logical about it.
All that seduction videos really teach you is to think more — to be more in your head — when what you really need at that moment you’re trying to seduce a woman is to be out of your head!
Focus on the basics, and do that before you make any major seduction move. Learn how to touch women better, how to be more confident, and learn how to move women toward the bedroom.
Start somewhere, and start small. Don’t know how to touch women? Focus on that first. Don’t know what attraction is? Work on that.
A lot of these techniques are easy to learn. If you want to learn about attraction, check out the Attraction Code by Vin DiCarlo, which also teaches touching. You can look online for a free resource called the Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, which will teach you how to be smooth with your touching, and how to do it in a way that progresses things to sex without unnecessary steps or making it awkward for her.
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