How can I turn on a woman from the first time I see her, Vin?
If you want a woman to desperately want to sleep with you from the minute the first date begins, then you need to have a plan. It really isn’t as hard as you think to know how to turn a woman on and make a woman want to jump into bed with you. Just follow this advice…
Is there a difference between turning a woman on from the perspective of getting her to want to talk to you; and then turning her on in a sexual manner so that she really wants to get physical with you? Oh you better believe there is! So how do you go beyond talking, and turn a woman on sexually?
You will get the mindset down first, and then you will need to practice these techniques over and over… don’t worry though after you start making progress, it won’t matter that you aren’t a pick-up artist… yet. You will feel the power of transformation and be able to convey that to the women you are with.
Here’s how to start turning on a woman on your first date…
The first step is to treat everything as foreplay, even if you’re just talking to her. You are getting her into a sexual state with every action and phrase you utter. This is actually a prerequisite to getting in bed, or getting to the stage where you have sex. Everything at the this very moment, from your demeanor, to the way you take foreplay out of the bedroom and into the interaction, into the date, into the first conversation — every little bit is important. You are creating sexual tension that she will want to release with everything that you do.
Think of it as you are constantly turning the thermometer up… getting her so hot that she will be sweating in no time.
While you’re at dinner, you want to be flirting with her and talking about sexual topics.
You’re getting her mind to think about the two of you sleeping together. At first, you can use subtle sexual innuendos. Say statements and words that could be taken a number of different ways. Use words like dirty, wet, bent over, opened up, and satisfied. You could be talking about anything, but you are starting to create a mind frame that she mind not even notice, but she will start to fantasize and think about you in that sexual way.
Start touching her as early as you can…
You want to use your touch as well. Touch her or kiss her when she’s at her high points, when she’s having the most fun or the most aroused — and then you take it away, so that she wants more of you. Maybe you go to the bathroom, or even you lean back in your seat just a bit or look around the room. You are creating and building a sense of tension that she will feel like she has to release.
Now continuing with this first date scenario, do you find that there are better or more appropriate places to go on a first date?
Perhaps places where you can really utilize these sexual turn on methods. I mean, is it okay to be doing this in a restaurant, or should you be saving that to do it in the car or in your house?
You can have sex anywhere you want. You want to focus on her comfort level though. Some girls will be cool with doing it anywhere, but others will want to be in a bed. That’s the beauty of these techniques. Even though it might appear to backfire because she may say, “We can’t do this in public”, the fact is that you’ve got her thinking about sex. If you can create as much tension though it will be easier to do just about anywhere. I’d suggest you plan the logistics to be back at your place. Have a reason to go back there that isn’t sexual though. Maybe you have a killer music collection or you have a DVD she must see or some art to show her.
Then you want to think about the different types of girls…
There’s the type that are more of a prude, or like to keep it private – but all of them have a key – you just need to discover it. Each woman loves to have sex… it is a genetic, biological thing that every one of us is into. You want to do your best to listen to your woman the entire time you are with her and note what turns her on. What does she keep mentioning as she talks? What is she passionate about?
Then you want to include the things she loves in your talks and even in your date. If she is athletic, then do athletic stuff. Get her blood working, so she is all sweaty.
Then just keep practicing as much as you can and you will learn how to turn on any woman you want… I promise.
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