do it right and she’ll be sexually addicted to you…
A lot of guys seem kind of lost on the whole idea of foreplay.
Foreplay is meant to lead bigger things when it comes to orgasm and vaginal intercourse.
Foreplay extends sexual pleasure and it heightens pleasure. It’s just a different form of pleasure that really turns on women and will make it much easier for you to be able to make a woman cum. So you should think about it like “I’m pleasuring my woman.”
A lot of guys think that foreplay is the way to get to that end goal.
They think of is as a chore or an obligation. They don’t put too much time or attention into it because they think it’s just something they have to do in order to get into her pants. They need to turn that way of thinking away and think of it as something that turns them on too.
I’m really into foreplay so it is something both of us enjoy.
If you are doing it because it’s a chore that you feel you have to do, she is going to sense that. She might still enjoy it and put up with your attitude. However, she’s not going to feel that same sort of pleasure, she’s not going to be able to let go. And when you want her to do something for you, she may just go through the motions as if it was a chore too. Do you really want that?
But if you are really into it she’ll actually be the one who is initiating the sex.
It’s not just you who is saying, “Ok I am getting to the climax now so I have got to put it in.” It rather like she’s joining you with, “Oh my god. I just need you. You just have to fuck me now!” A lot of the times girls just tell me, “Just fuck me. Whatever you are doing just stop and fuck me!” I love that!
So if the guy can get into the sexual foreplay that she enjoys so much they will learn that that is just as much sex as vaginal intercourse. If she likes you to use your fingers and tongue on her body, go for it! And really get into the energy that she gives off as she builds toward orgasm. When you do have vaginal sex after the initial foreplay you will find that she gets crazy turned on. Her vagina is so ready for you that when you get off she will too. The orgasm that you two share at the same time will be a thousand times better.
Foreplay is play.
So play for keeps and get her to really feel that you are pleasuring her for you as well as for her. You are going to freaking LOVE it!
Kick start her desire
How do you start building this irresistible sexual tension? Use this method I teach all of my VIP clients that gets them laid every time: Open her box