You only think you know how to turn her on…
Even though she is giving you all the right signs and signals… there is a chance you are missing something, and she isn’t even aware of it (but she will know if another guy gives it a try).
The key to really turning her on is by using sexual tension. However, you have to have the right balance without being too nice or too pushy.
Read on for some simple details to get you started…
- The more relaxed she is, the easier it will be to turn her on.
***And when you finish reading, please share one your sexual frustrations in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
Balance her tension…
Most women won’t say she wants a guy to make her “tense,” but sexual tension is exactly what she wants to feel. She is looking for a man who knows how to build sexual tension. She wants a guy who she can feels comfortable with, but who can push her to uncomfortable places at the appropriate time.
The problem is that most men fall into one of two extremes. The first extreme is the nice guy, or the guy who shows no interest in her because he doesn’t touch her or advance on her. The other is the sleazy guy who may be too hands-on, or too pressuring, and advances in a way that’s really aggressive and doesn’t make her feel comfortable.
It’s important to realize that for someone to be aroused, a man or a woman, they must first feel relaxed. You have to keep in mind that women need to be relaxed and comfortable. Women aren’t always comfortable with projecting the fact that they are sexual creatures, so guys who advance on them in an aggressive fashion can put a lot of pressure on them. You don’t want to be that guy. You want to be the guy who she feels comfortable with and who can turn her on naturally.
Then crank the tension up…
Obviously there are many possible ways to make her horny but which approach should you choose? Ultimately, you need to build sexual tension. You want to be in a controlled state of arousal without advancing on that state. You don’t necessarily need to do anything that can be interpreted as being sexual, and you don’t outright tell her that you intend to take her home that night, but you are still turned on and project that sexuality towards her.
Touch her
This isn’t really that difficult. Just get used to interacting with women. You need to become more comfortable with touching women and interacting with them. As I said earlier, it’s going to be very hard for you to be aroused, even with a woman present, if you are not used to being alone with a woman. So start there and learn to be more relaxed. This will help her to relax, too.
Let yourself be aroused
The next step is simply being more aroused. I don’t mean being really horny, getting a huge erection, or anything crazy like that. I’m just saying, think sexual thoughts and let yourself get a little bit turned on, but without letting it get out of control. If both of you are comfortable then the fact that you are aroused will project onto her and she will start to become aroused as well.
Use subtle sexual language
The final step is to start a conversation where you can verbalize some of your feelings. Using sensual language and double entendres can be a powerful way to turn women on. It’s amazing how innocent remarks, like talking about food and how it melts in your mouth, can be interpreted by women in a very sexual way. By saying these things without making them obviously sexual, it will be easier for her to allow herself to get turned on.
***Remember: please take 12 seconds or so and share one of your sexual frustrations in the comments below. I’d like to help you and will try to answer each comment personally.
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