How would you like to be able to read women like a book?
Trust me when I say this is the key to getting laid by the the most beautiful woman in the room – anytime you like. But it is possible she will block you out at first. Do not despair – just take my advice and soon all her barriers will come down.
I think high quality girls want to be won over by a high quality guy. So a lot of the time, a high quality girl will not give a guy a massive green light right from the start when he approaches her because essentially, she wants to test his self-belief. Does he actually believe in himself or does he have a bunch of false bravado which he uses to armor up?
She also wants to test for his persistence. Is he the sort of guy that’s going to fight for her? So, ultimately, if a girl doesn’t give a super warm response right from the start, a lot of the time, that’s just her essentially putting the challenge out there and trying to test if you’re a guy who she would be interested in spending more time with.
So what I would suggest guys think about are ways that you can reframe the experience of a girl not showing signs of interest so that he can look at the situation from a productive mindset. In my case, I often feel like the girl is deliberately trying to play hard to get.
I find that really endearing. It’s sort of cute, and as a result I’ll respond to the girl in a similar way. The flavor of our interaction will be one where I acknowledge that she’s playing hard to get, and the harder she plays that game, the more it excites me. That way she ultimately becomes responsible for turning me on.
Another reframe that I often use is that the girl is just shy or intimidated by me. As you work on becoming more attractive, you’ll actually experience this yourself. Once again I find this is a particularly endearing quality. There is something really flattering about it.
How you reframe situations is not important. What’s important is that you don’t negatively crumble just because a girl doesn’t show you overt signs of interest. You don’t need to throw the baby out with the bath water. Just continue the interaction as though she had given you a green light. I usually find that if I hold my frame and don’t buy into her lack of enthusiasm; girls will open up after 30 seconds to 2 minutes.
You’ll actually see Ice Princesses melt right in front of your eyes, and when they do their attraction will be far more long-lasting than had they given you a warm response at the start. From that perspective, I am often more excited when a girl doesn’t respond overly favorably in the beginning, particularly if she is extremely hot, because the truth is — she’s ultimately helping me in the long run. Helping me hone my skills.
Your skills with women is what will get you into bed with them, make no mistake about that. It does not matter how you look, how smart you are or how much money you earn – if you know the psychological tricks that get a woman going you are going to have more sex with more beautiful women than you can even handle.
Not sure what those tricks are? You will be astounded how easy it actually is watch this video and all will be revealed.