You can tell when a girl isn’t interested…
But she might not be as uninterested as you think.
Here is what you need to know to get the girl.
High quality girls want to be won over by a high quality guy.
A lot of times, a high quality girl will not give a guy a massive green light right from the start. Essentially, she wants to test him and his dedication to the chase. Some women get very turned-on by a guy who really goes through some tough conversation and proves his interest. She wants to test for his persistence. Is he the sort of guy that’s going to fight for her? Ultimately, if a girl doesn’t give a super warm response right from the start, a lot of the tim, that’s just her way of putting the challenge out there. She’s trying to test if you’re a guy who she would be interested in spending more time with.
She is playing hard to get.
What I would suggest that you guys think about is this: What are ways that you can re-frame the experience of a girl not showing signs of interest? How can you look at that situation from a productive place in your head? For me, I’ll often feel like the girl is deliberately trying to play hard to get. That is not only a challenge which I enjoy rising to, but it is also a sign of interest. Some guys would just give up at that point and miss out on a really awesome girl.
I find that most woman find your tenacity to be really endearing. It’s sort of cute to her, and as a result I’ll respond to the girl in that way. I know I am playing a game along with her and my whole perspective is not to take it personal at this point. The flavor of our interaction will be one where I acknowledge that she’s playing hard to get, and the harder she plays that game the more excited it makes me. That way she ultimately becomes responsible for turning me on. Now this is fun!
She is shy.
Another re-frame that I often use is to imagine that the girl is just shy or intimidated by me. The reality is that as you work on becoming more attractive, you’ll actually experience this in reality. Once again I find this is a particularly endearing quality. There is something really flattering about it. How cute is it that I make her nervous?
Keep the interaction going.
How you re-frame situations is not important. What’s important is that you don’t negatively crumble just because a girl doesn’t show you overt signs of interest. You don’t need to throw the baby out with the bath water. Just continue the interaction as though she had given you a green light. I usually find that if I hold my frame and don’t buy into her lack of enthusiasm; girls will open up after 30 seconds to 2 minutes.
You’ll actually see the Ice Princess melt in front of your eyes, and when she does, her attraction will be for more lasting.
Had she given you a warm response at the start, you may not have chased her as hard, nor been as attracted as you are right now? It is all part of the grand game. From that perspective, I often am more excited when a girl doesn’t respond favorably in the beginning. Particularly if she is extremely hot, because the truth is that she is ultimately helping me in the long run.
Girls are not as hard to read as you think.
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