She’s just not that into you, or is she?
Although she might have said NO (to your face) …
And her body language might have told you the same story, you chances aren’t over.
Unless she’s hitched, pregnant, and totally devoted, she’s still fair game!
Find out how to quickly get her interest, hold it, and get her where you want her by reading this article:
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What she says and does can sometimes hide some true feelings...
So: you’ve made your move, and you’ve asked a girl out on a date unsuccessfully. Maybe you’ve been on the date with the girl of your dreams, but she doesn’t want a relationship. If you’re getting all the signs a girl is not interested, it can be frustrating and worrying.
But, if you don’t take action, things could worsen. What if, just one month later, you see that she’s in a relationship? What if her “no” means “not yet”, and there could be a chance of a relationship in the future?
A lot of times, I’ve found that when a girl says she doesn’t want a relationship, she’s probably trying to convince herself logically in her head that she’s not ready yet.
But, if you come along and you take her breathe away and you spark up her attraction, then that’s going to change, and emotion will be stronger than logic. She will choose her heart over her head.
Get a girl to like you, and all without saying a word
When you see her, you want to amp up the flirtation as much as possible – you really want to express yourself as an attractive guy. You don’t have to ask a girl out on a date, it’s just all about how you act.
When you’re going to meet her, display the really cool, attractive qualities that are going to make her look at you. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a decisive dude or whether you look good. Have a think about what she likes and what she’s after, and give her what she wants to spark that attraction. Most of all though, have fun when you’re with her, and enjoy the moment.
Give her a great time, and if you’re feeling confident enough, maybe pull her a little closer to you and push her away. To get a girl to want you, teasing is the best way forward. If you want to know how to get girls, just remember that many girls like the chase. The more you entice them and give them a little bit of affection and attention, the more they will want.
Suddenly, that attraction will build up, and in her mind, she will be telling herself that even though she’s not interested in a relationship, she’s starting to feel emotionally attached to you. Progress is being made.
If the girl is not interested… and she means it
I had a situation like this recently where a girl had just came out of a long-term relationship. She just really wasn’t mentally ready to go through a relationship again. She was more in that phase of her life where she was discovering herself, reconnecting with her friends and enjoying the attention that she was getting from a lot guys.
At that particular point, she just really wasn’t ready to take on another relationship. She still had a little time to go to enjoy this particular period of her life. It really didn’t matter how good you were, how attractive you were to her, she had her heart set on enjoying this moment in her life. In that particular situation, I wouldn’t persist in the situation. I would either wait or I would just move on.
Sometimes it’s a game of patience, and other times, it’ll be a game of perseverance. Be yourself, be fun, and look out for signs she is shy. By playing the situation by ear, who knows what could happen next?
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