Being single should be a choice; not something you are forced into because you can't pick up women. If you find yourself in this situation, then this article ought to be a good first step.
Are you completely sick of being single and ready to hook up with the girl of your dreams?
Being single can be fun, but it can also wear a bit thin after awhile…
If you are ready to find that perfect girl you have always known is out there then you need a plan. Read on.
Get attractive.
If you are meeting girls, but you’re really struggling to get to the next level, it is possible you need some tweaks to your general level of attractiveness. Don’t panic, this is not about your looks. You have to understand that attractiveness is less than half about your physical appearance. Most of it is your attitude, your behaviors, etc. It is the way you think, and the way you act.
Qualify the women you meet.
Far too often, guys lack a proper sense of self-worth. They don’t feel like they deserve to have an attractive girlfriend, or they keep asking themselves, “Why would a girl ever want to date me?” I would suggest part of your strategy to be part of a couple needs to be a complete paradigm shift in the way you perceive things. From now on, when you meet a girl or intend to go out to meet girls, ask yourself, “What does she have to offer me?” Suddenly, you’ve turned the tables and created standards for yourself. That is a very attractive quality in and of itself.
You don’t need women.
Also realise women are completely uninterested in guys who are weak or who need women, crazy I know but it is the truth. The more you need a woman, the less she wants to be with you. Women like strong and independent men, because those are the kind of men who can provide for and protect her. So if you want to pickup women, you really need to start working on your lifestyle and becoming a more interesting person who doesn’t need women. That’s the moment women become attracted.
Meet a lot of women.
It’s really not rocket science. It’s really just a matter of meeting enough women who you have something in common with, and then learning through that experience. Some guys can go speed dating and get no matches, and when you ask them what went wrong or what they could have done better, they don’t know. You want to start to build some awareness of where your blind spots are, what you’re doing wrong, and where most of your improvement is going to come from. That way you can spot your mistakes as you make them, and then improve upon them.
The three missions you need to try…
If you want to get rid of single status and meet the girl for you a challenge you to complete three missions in the next few weeks.
1. Embrace change.
Number one is to start to embrace the concept of change. You might need to change your image, your lifestyle, your friends, your priorities, what’s important to you, your preferences and stuff you like, and how you think. So how do you change your life? Start to embrace the process of change. If you’re not happy with yourself as you are, then don’t see change as a negative, but instead really start to enjoy it. Start with some small changes, and then work your way up. Think about the dreams and aspirations you had when you were a child. How close are you to living them today? Maybe review your passions and life direction…
2. Talk to people.
Number two, you’ve got to get over shyness. In most cases that guys have not been able to get a girlfriend, it’s usually because they’re shy. They’ve usually got some social anxiety, so it’s time to get rid of that forever. We have plenty of articles specifically targeting social anxiety, but some of the simple things you can start out with are greeting random people on the street with a “Hello”, smiling at people and making eye contact, asking people for the time and directions, and eventually starting full conversations with people. Are you waiting in a queue at a supermarket? Take a curious attitude with regard to the other people waiting in line, and ask one of them some questions, like how they like this shop compared to another, etc. Just integrate social interactions into every facet of your life, until it becomes a completely natural thing for you.
3. Be positive.
The third thing is to just spend some time everyday working on creating a positive mindset. Create daily habits that will make you feel better about yourself. It can be something as simple as making up your bed in the morning, or putting on nicer clothing that makes you feel higher value. Smile at yourself in the mirror before you leave the house, and look at the positive aspects of things as much as possible.
These are the three missions that will change your status from single to in a deep caring sexual relationship.
Would you now like to know the 3 simple tricks that will switch any girls mind on to you and make her chase you like there is no other men on earth?
