Great news guys…
Online dating is the answer to getting laid, if you are shy or slightly nervous.
You might even meet the girl of your dreams.
Without a doubt, online dating can be a great way to get back into the dating game or get in for the first time for someone who isn’t too comfortable or used to going on a lot of dates. Having said that, there are a few drawbacks that we have to keep in mind.
Try these tips now.
1. Choose your dating site wisely.
Avoid sites that don’t let you send personal messages. It’s important that you are able to send personal messages because it allows you to stand out from the crowd. In terms of your initial message, you don’t want to make it too long and you don’t want to make it too full on. Be careful with sending anything that is generic and try to keep it punchy and relevant. A good thing to notice is maybe some details in her photos that stand out to you or something that she says in her profile that you can use as an initiator for conversing. It also shows that you read her profile – I think a lot of girls are getting messages from guys who aren’t actually reading their profiles.
2. Free sites work too.
Another thing is, you don’t have to use the paid sites to get results. There are so many free dating sites out there and so many available options that it doesn’t necessarily require you forking out money to be able to get results online. What’s important, again, is focusing on sites where you can send personal messages and where there are a lot of active women.
3. Work towards offline.
My third tip is to remember why you are doing what you’re doing. Your using free sites for dating as a means to get women to see you in person. You don’t want to be too caught up in having conversations online and getting into these conversations with all these women and spending all this time chatting to them online but not increasing your actual amount of dates or the amount of sex that you’re having. After all, that is why you’re doing it, right? It’s important that you work towards conversing with the woman, building comfort, getting a bit of interest and then moving to logistics.
4. Talk on the phone.
A good stepping stone is simply getting them on the phone because it gives them a chance, in a comfortable way, to get to know you better and get to build some credibility before you meet in person. There’s nothing wrong with going for a phone number really early on especially if you’re talking to lots of women. Generally, you want to get her to a point where she’s starting to invest a bit more into the messages and starting to ask you more about yourself.
Getting her to call you is really powerful too because it’s basically suggesting that she wants to make the effort to meet you, because she’s doing the work in order to move things along and it can also be a much comfortabler option for her because she’s the one choosing to do it. If you can’t, that’s okay too. Just focus on getting her on the phone and then building more comfort on the phone if you haven’t already got the logistics sorted.
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