So you want to get laid by the most beautiful girl in the nightclub?
This is actually much easier than you think and boils down to these 3 simple steps.
Step No. 1 – Lead her to a more private and comfortable place
The first step is, of course, to move her to a more isolated area. Most girls aren’t comfortable with going straight from meeting a guy in a club and dancing with him on the dance floor, to going home. Some girls will, but what they really like is a stopover, a half way point that they can get to, and then they are comfortable enough to go home.
That may be the quiet area of a club. But what I really encourage guys to do when they first walk into a night club is to scope it out. Do a quick tour of the night club and get an idea of what women are there, and which women you’re attracted to. Also get an idea of where the isolation opportunities are inside the club.
She wants to be able to move things to that point because it’s still a safe area for her, but at the same time she can start to get things a little bit more hot and heavy. She can start to build a progression there. You want to get to a point where she’s starting to escalate things with you.
Step No. 2 – Take her home, but take sex out of the equation
Now you need to be able to extract her from the club and back to your place. If you do that in a way that implies that you’re going to have sex, that will only be successful some of the time. I’m more interested in finding strategies that are going to be successful every time.
So what I prefer to do is to take sex out of the equation. I do that by just saying, “You know what, lets head back to my place and we’ll have a couple of drinks and just chill out.” Or I’ll say, “I’m done for tonight. Let’s head back to my place, although you won’t be able to stay for long because I need to get up early in the morning.”
You’re letting her know on a conscious level that nothing is going to happen. Ultimately she’ll know why she’s going back to your place, but if she has to verbally agree to it then that’s going to put a lot of pressure on her and it’s going to make her feel like she’s a slut. What you want to do is make her aware of why she’s going back but not put that pressure on her to have to verbally agree.
Step No. 3 – Relentlessly continue escalating
Step three is when you get back to your place, you need to be able to continue the escalation. I find that a lot of guys have trouble with this. When they get a girl back to their place, they just start to freeze up. They think “Well, I can’t push things toward sex because what if she knows that, what if she recognizes that?” They start to back the escalation off and all that positive momentum that you’ve built up starts to dissipate.
The truth though is that she knows full well why she’s back here, she just can’t verbally say it; so the key is when you get her to your home, escalate straight away. My strategy for this was always to just take her inside, walk straight to my bedroom, take my clothes off, and jump under the blankets. That was it. That was my whole strategy. Girls then knew exactly what was expected of them, so they would then just follow suit and come to bed with me.
If she’s not comfortable with that, that’s fine. You just jump out, you put your clothes back on, you ask her if she wants to have a drink, and you start to escalate again. Then you start to progress things from that point on just as you would have before.
Did you know there are some things you can say to a woman the inject uncontrollable lust right into a woman’s subconscious?
She will want to rip your clothes off and she won’t even know why.