Successful dating requires forethought and planning so that it becomes a date to remember.
You want to create an unforgettable memory so that you’re date is left intrigued and wanting more. Everyone has negative things to say about the standard date, so what are suggestions that you could use to create a fun and exciting date, and steer clear of the dinner and movie routines?
What are some creative date ideas that you have come up with that made the moment an incredible experience? Please leave your comments in the box below.
Movies and dinners are fine, but for a successful first date, you need to go above and beyond the expected. The biggest issues with movies and dinners are they can often be boring, routine, and expected.
I have three particular issues that I would like to address about the problems with movies and dinners, so that I can move you out of the realm of normalcy and into the realm of fun dating.
Issue #1: Movies take too long without any movement.
Once you sit down with a girl to watch a movie and it’s an epic three hours long, you’ve essentially been in the same place and position, and not done anything else for that entire period of time. Your butts are tired and your muscles ache from sitting in one position.
Issue #2: Again, with movies, they don’t give you an avenue to talk.
Once again, when we look at movies, it’s almost impossible to work on any type of verbal communication. A first date is best if the two people get an opportunity to get to know each other. The only way to get to know one another is through talking, not watching romance or action on the screen.
Issue #3: Movies and dinners can be too formal for a first date.
The whole dating world chooses this avenue for dating and it has a stigma attached to it. Your hidden agenda is that you want to be able to demonstrate to your date that you’re different from everyone else. You want to create a fun and unique experience that will stand out in her mind, and be like no other date she has experienced.
If you want to be a success at dating, then you must create a successful dating experience. I have three successful dating tips that you need to incorporate, because stepping out of the routine dating box will make you a big hit with any date you go on.
Tip#1: Include as many different venues and activities as you can.
What this does is it creates a time distortion. If you do five activities in the space of a couple of hours, it will feel to her like you’ve already done so much together. Those few hours will no longer feel like a few hours, they will feel like an entire afternoon or evening.
Creating more experiences aids in the process of getting to know each other better, which also helps in learning about each other on a deeper level and building more report.
Great places for a first date where you can incorporate a few activities all at once are theme parks, beaches, or main event places where there are different things all in one generalized area. I know of places where bowling, pool, arcades, and laser tag are all under one roof.
Look and do your research, because these type of dates don’t really require moving from place to place. Find somewhere that has all kinds of activities in one area, where you aren’t spending any major time going from place to place.
Tip #2: Focus on how you can incorporate escalation into your dates.
Going on a date where you aren’t able to touch is a major issue with dinner dates, because you sit across the table from each other. This limits your ability to move things in a sexual direction. Sit back before your date and think about creative date ideas where touching is part of the date.
You want to be able to go on dates where touching is not only accepted but becomes a part of the date. Go on a date like rollerblading, or playing putt-putt golf where you can sort of show her how to hold the golf club. What a great way to add touching without being obvious! Choosing dates where you can incorporate your keno escalation will be really important.
Tip #3: Focus on being fun and playful.
Go to cool little cocktail lounges and funky bars, because they set the right tone and ambiance. The scene is vibrant, fun, and entertaining, which helps move the interaction in a more casual direction.
It also gives you the opportunity to have a couple of drinks and focus on enjoying yourselves and relaxing. Don’t just take your date to a place for the sake of going there for the date. Take her to places that you like going to, that you would probably be going to anyway. Use this opportunity to hang out with a cute girl while you’re doing something you enjoy doing already.
If you enjoy doing any activity, your enthusiasm will show through your exuberance, and will set the tone for the date. Passion creates passion, just as boredom creates boredom.
Success in dating is created by atmosphere, excitement, and doing something that is just plain fun. Step out of the norm and step into spontaneity and creativity. Successful dating includes having fun, and having fun together.
When you’re on a date and having a great time, don’t forget to use proven strategies that make her want you. If you’re ready to take your game to a WHOLE NEW LEVEL, watch my FREE video while it’s still online. After you learn a few simple secrets, you’ll always be able to dictate the success of every date…