You may have noticed; women travel in packs, especially the beautiful ones.
Would you like to know the secret to getting inside that pack and getting the most gorgeous girl of all away from the herd?
Learning to talk to groups is one skill you need to learn
Groups are tough.
It’s not that simple to talk to women when they’re in groups. However, if they’re in a social setting that is clearly geared towards hooking up, then they will welcome your attempts to lead them away from the group. Walk up to them, introduce yourself, and shake their hand. Then tell them that you want to show them something, grab their hand, and lead them away from the group. It’s important to break down the touch barrier as early as possible. If they’re attracted to you, then they should be receptive to this.
Once you’ve isolated her from the group, you can follow the following conversational advice.
1. Be friendly.
First of all, when you’re talking to someone, you want to come across as friendly as possible; as someone who’s easy to talk to, not challenging or controversial, and not intimidating. You want to smile, be engaged in what they have to say, and listen to them attentively. Show them signs that you’re interested in what they’re talking about.
2. Nod your head.
You can do that by nodding your head, relating certain things from your life to what they’re talking about it, and smiling at them. Eye contact plays a big part in that too. If you’re looking at them and keeping eye contact, they know that you’re focused on them and not distracted by what’s happening around you.
3. Find common ground.
We connect better with people when we are able to relate with common interests or experiences. If you find that something she’s talking about is similar to one of your experiences, make sure to tell her that and talk about your stories. That will help you build a rapport with her. Not only will she find you quite interesting because she can relate to you in certain ways, but you immediately have potential activities for future dates. For instance, if you both like art, you can invite her to a an art exhibition.
4. Be curious.
You should aim to keep the conversation going for at least a few minutes. Ask her questions if you care about the answers, really listen to her, and adopt a genuine attitude of curiosity. The longer you talk, the more comfortable you’ll feel in each other’s presence. After a while she should hopefully start to warm up to you and become more comfortable in your presence.
5. Get her talking.
Make sure you’re not only talking however. If all you do is talk, she will quickly lump you into the friend zone, and that’s not something you want. If you do not escalate quickly, through the use of touch, sexual innuendo, etc., then you will find it a lot harder to create in her mind the image of you being a potential sexual partner. I suggest you have a look at the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder for a more detailed guide on escalation.
6. Figure out how she is feeling.
You also have to be attentive to how she’s feeling in the interaction while you’re talking with her. Be careful of signs that she’s getting bored with what you’re talking about, or that she’s losing interest in you. Telltale signals might be her eyes darting elsewhere, or her body language suggesting that she wants to go somewhere else. Pick up on those queues and act accordingly.
7. Get her number.
Perhaps that means it’s time to get her number and speak to her again another time. It’s better to finish the interaction a little earlier with a chance to re-engage it again later on, than to talk longer than you need to. Don’t overextend the interaction so that it fizzles out. Keep it long enough to build comfort, but short enough that it feels like an exciting burst of conversation – as opposed to a lengthy monologue.
Isolating a girl from the group so you can make your move can be the easy bit; what do you say once you have got her alone?
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