Teenagers have enough issues with adolescence without adding dating and relationships into the mix. This just adds to the anxiety that they are already facing.
For the younger generation who’s just starting to think of the opposite sex as more than just being yucky and having cooties, what are some things that they need to keep in mind to make sure that they’re getting involved in healthy relationships and not allowing their need for acceptance to get a hold of them?
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The teenage years can be a really challenging period. They’re going through changes; they’re constantly feeling the pressures of having to try to fit in and become accepted by their peers. What a stressful period this time in their young lives becomes!
On top of that, you throw into the mix the fact that they’re moving from a place where girls that were once seen as the opposition and yucky are now starting to look pretty damn good and desirable. I think some things are really critical for healthy teenage relationships, so let’s take a look at a few.
Rather than focusing specifically on how you get better with girls, take a bigger picture approach.
Make getting better with girls part of something even bigger. What you need to focus on is building social circles and becoming more popular in general. Develop a lifestyle that’s fun and exciting, and as a teenager that’s something that is actually quite easy to do.
A lot of teenagers live very boring lives; their lives are very predictable and monotonous. So get out, take on new activities and start building new social circles. You can actually put yourself ahead of the pack very quickly.
I came up with a top four list on teenage dating tips for what teenagers should be doing, particularly teenage boys, to improve their social connections.
The first tip is identify what your style is.
Having a look as a teenager is actually more important than being good looking. Work on how you style yourself and work on what activities are going to support that particular look that you’ve set up.
The second tip is to become better with conversation skills.
Utilize the principles in the Conversation Cure product on this website to be able to go up and talk to everyone; learn to talk in statements rather than getting stuck on asking questions.
The third tip is to become better with touch.
If you can master the art of being able to touch girls at a young age and learn to become a “touchy-feely” person, then as you progress through high school and through college you’ll have an awful amount of success. You’ll also have fun, because touch feels super cool.
The fourth tip is to learn to lead.
A big factor in who’s successful with girls through high school and college is who are the alpha males? Who are the guys that make the calls and who are the guys that follow? If you’re a follower, you’re significantly reducing the pool of girls that you’ll have to choose from.
It’s interesting that often, in order to have success with dating, you need to lead men. Leaders of men are always going to have an abundance of women in their life. Once you learn to make good decisions, make statements instead of asking questions, and leading people, you’ll often find that you’re relationship problems will subside.
The fifth tip is to learn about what girls really want. I can’t put that into an article so I created you a video because there’s no better time to discover how to read a womans thoughts and emotions than NOW.