When it comes to the art of flirting, many guys make it more difficult than it actually is.
Many guys shut down and simply don’t have much confidence when it comes to flirting. They can’t look at themselves externally, so they are unsure of what needs a change. Are you this guy?
I’m going to ask a few questions for you to think about, and want you to evaluate them in the context of your life. If you are having problems in flirting with girls, chances are they stem from issues involving one of these questions.
Have you overcome issues with flirting? How did you become a better flirt and up your game with the girls? Please leave your comments in the box below.
Question 1: How funny are you?
Learn to lighten up! If you don’t have a sense of humor or have the ability to make light of particular situations, then you present yourself as stiff and uncomfortable. Or always serious, which isn’t good either. If you don’t have the ability to lighten the mood, tease the girl, and bring laughter to the situation, then flirting is going to be a real challenge for you.
A huge part of flirting is the ability to push-pull with the girl. All that involves is teasing; you tease the girl in a fun and playful way and then push her away from you, but then you give her sweet compliments and you pull her back in. This will assist your ability to be a flirt, and a damn good one. Girls love this type of interaction. Girls are good at playing, so you better up your game.
Question 2: What does your body language and sub-communication say about you?
If you want to be able to flirt, then it is critical to look like a guy who is getting laid and who is having success with the girls. A huge part of flirting is what happens beneath the surface.
You must be able to hold a regular conversation and dress like a guy who is getting laid. You have to be that sure of yourself. You have to learn eye contact flirting, because if you look away often, it looks as if you have something to hide, and can’t be trusted. You just lost the game before you even got to play.
Your non-verbal actions are picked up by girls, they can read body language like a pro. If you present yourself as a self-confident dude who is comfortable with girls, dating, and sex, she will notice and pick up on this immediately. Self-confidence is everything is the game of dating.
Question 3: Are you able to talk about sex comfortably?
If you’re not comfortable at all when it comes to talking about sex, then you’re going to have issues with being able to flirt. Essentially, flirting is the art of moving the interaction in a sexual direction but without overtly being direct about it. You have to know how to exude sexuality. After all, what turns a girl on more than a sexy man?
If you feel comfortable talking about sex, even if it’s just casual hints, then you’re going to be able to flirt a lot more effectively; it will demonstrate a lot of positive qualities about you. It will be a big challenge for you if you’re talking about sex and act nervous and sweat profusely, because a girl is instantly going to disqualify you as being an option for her.
Think about these three questions, and figure out what area you are lacking in. Flirting is best done with contrast. Be direct verbally but non-direct with your body language, or direct with your body language and indirect verbally. The art of flirting is all about being able to utilize the power of contrast, body language, and self-confidence.
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