What is pillow talk?

Pillow talk is what you say to each her in your intimate moments.

Do it right and you can turn on your partner with pillow (or dirty) talk. Some people are comfortable with pillow talk, some people aren’t, and some people don’t do it at all. For myself, I’m not that comfortable with it, although I am getting more comfortable the more I practice.

Tell her what you honestly want to do to her... is the best way to pillow talk.

Are you comfortable with dirty talk?

What I’ve been doing is to test the water with a girl. If she initiates pillow talk, then I more easily open up to her. I will engage in pillow talk or dirty talk. However, if a girl is quiet and I’m unsure if she’s going to be receptive to pillow talk, then I may test the waters. I do this by quietly bringing up certain things, and then I watch for her reaction. If I get a good reaction, then I’ll amp up my efforts to get a little dirtier.

It isn’t what you say… but how you say it.

What I’ve found is that it’s not so much what I say, but rather how I say it. I lower my voice to make it a deeper and slower. This seems to resonate very well with girls and puts them in a more sexual state. I also like to whisper as well, especially if she’s at the point of orgasm. I whisper something in her ear, such as, “I want to see you cum.” This heightens the sex, takes it up a notch, and women love it.

Here are some examples of what to say to attract women and turn them on more during pillow talk.

If you have been desperate and alone thinking about her all day, you can say, “I’ve been waiting for this moment all day and I just want to screw the hell out of you right now.”
Another example is, “I love the way you touch me, it’s awesome.”
Compliment her on a body part that you sincerely like. Don’t say something, just for the sake of it.
If there is something that really turns you on, communicate that to her.
Be as honest as possible.

Practice your dirty talk.

One of the best tips that I got (when I started to learn how to use pillow talk) is to practice in front of a mirror. It’s awkward, but if you keep doing it, you can get through the awkwardness and become more comfortable.

If you’re not comfortable with pillow talk, try saying something like, “I really love the way you look, it just turns me on.” Say something small to start off with, and then get dirtier as you go along. Take small steps. The more comfortable you get with it, the more you can open up and let it out.

Feel her out.

One last thing, be aware of how comfortable she is. If she looks like she is feeling awkward, because of what you are saying, then she is either not ready for pillow talk, or it’s not something she enjoys. Don’t push it too far if she’s not comfortable.

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