How would you like to be able to mould your girlfriend into exactly what you want in a woman?
If you want to shape the perfect woman for you… then read on.
Reward and punish her... when she is the girl you want her to be
Show her how to behave.
Shaping is the means by which to show her how you expect her to behave. It is a psychological principle that we all do already, but don’t worry this is not about playing Doctor Frankenstein, neither is it about control and harsh treatment. It is actually all about positive reinforcement.
So what you want to do is you want to think of the qualities you expect from a woman. Make sure you get it right though, make sure it is what you need in a woman, not just what you think you want. When she demonstrates any of these desirable qualities the idea is to reinforce these behaviours through reward.
Reward her.
So say that you want her to be adventurous and she starts talking about travelling a lot and things like that. You might turn around and say, “I love how adventurous you are, and I think having adventurous people around makes things exciting and fresh and you never get too caught up in a routine.” Subconsciously, this is communicating to her that you expect her to be adventurous. This can be powerful especially when you are trying to get sex and learning how to have sex with a woman, or you are trying to be sexually adventurous, because eventually, what you are leading to is that she is open to adventure.
Compliment her.
You want to make sure that you are shaping the right kind of qualities. There all types of ways to help shape the behaviour you want, and deserve in a woman. I think the main key of any of them is positive reinforcement. Compliments go a long way. You acknowledging, commenting on her qualities that you want to enhance will be remembered. Give her a smile when she is doing something you like, encourage her to develop those things. It doesn’t have to be overbearing and there is no reason to knock her over the head with a brick, subtlety can be a great thing.
Don’t reinforce negative qualities.
Be wary of shaping things that you do not want, that will not be beneficial. There are plenty of qualities you might think you want, but that will come back and bite you in the ass later. Also don’t comment on negative qualities because that is reinforcing the wrong behaviour. If a guy says to a girl, “Wow. You are really headstrong.” Well, that can be a bad thing. Later on she’ll retract when you are trying to get her to do something. She is going to be headstrong and it not going to work to your favour.
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