You want the best gift for your girlfriend, right?
Flowers and chocolate again or something that will rock her world… and maybe yours… are the way to go.
Here are some more tips though.
She loves gifts... but not the kind you think
Surprise her.
Any gift that surprises her is a good gift. When I say surprise, obviously we want to be surprising her in a good way rather than a bad way. If it is something she is not expecting, that can really catch unaware and I think they are often the gifts that people enjoy the most.
Don’t wait until the last minute.
The problem that most guys have when they are buying a gift for their girlfriend’s birthday, anniversary, or any special event is that you leave it to the last minute. What you do is you pay more attention in your day-to-day life. You put that pressure on yourself to have to think of something that is going to surprise or something that is really going to excite her. It is highly likely that you have to settle on buying her chocolates or perfume or stuff from a beauty shop.
You want to stand out.
Now it is not that these are particularly bad gifts they are completely acceptable. However, you do not really want to be acceptable; you want to stand out from the pack. One of the things I do is to keep an open notebook on my iPhone. Anytime my girlfriend mentions something that she likes, I make a stop memory of it and later on, I track it down.
I’ve got a list of about 15 items that I recognize when I’ve been out shopping with my girlfriend, when we’re watching TV, maybe when we’re listening to the radio and a song comes on; something that she says to me that she really digs. When her birthday comes around a couple of months later, I look at this list, it’s really easy for me to pick out some things that I think are going to be a really good fit.
Know her.
The second step is just getting to know your girl on a deeper level. Get a sense of whom she really is and the things that make her passionate. Too often guys tend to scratch the surface. They do not really know what her ambition is and what she likes. They do not know what her great passions are. They do not really know what the things are that she wishes she did more of but for a variety of reasons cannot. If a guy can get a better sense of that, he can really start to think outside the box on what to buy.
Get a gift that is for both of you.
The final thing is to try getting her a gift that incorporates the two of you together. This can be powerful. Maybe that is going out or going away on a holiday and you organize the accommodation to stay in a nice upper class hotel. Maybe doing a course together or going for a couples massage. Anything that can involve the two of you working together helps fit the right frame, which is the frame of mutual stuff.
Do you have questions about giving gifts for your girlfriend? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer each question personally.
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