The club scene is one of the most competitive places on earth to attract women and get noticed. So many people, and so many things going on. How do you stand out above the rest? How do you get women to notice you?
What are the keys things that you need to keep in mind when you’re at the bar, so that you can set yourself apart from the rest of the competition?
What has been your experience getting noticed by women in the clubs? Are there any secrets along the way that have worked in your favor that you can share with other guys? Please leave your comments in the box below.
There are big advantages to approaching women in clubs. For starters, where else can you find such a high population of 9′s and 10′s all at one time? With that said, the club scene also has some inherant challenges. There are multiple distractions, and a high level of competition. But there are ways you can get a girl’s attention when you are out at the club. If you want to be successful in standing out above every other guy, then I suggest you read on, and take the challenge to get yourself noticed and attract more women in club environments.
The first key is, get an early start.
The most common mistake you can make when you go to a bar. is you get there and decide to settle into a few drinks before you do any approaches. You sit down with your buddies and watch all the cute girls walking around. You think to yourself how good it would be to pick up this girl or that girl, but then you just sit there and wait.
You may even justify your inaction by saying, “I’m not quite ready yet. I’ll just get one drink”, or “I’ll just go to the toilet and then I’ll come back and I’ll start doing approaches”. Procrastination keeps you sitting in the same seat, watching the same girls.
The problem with waiting until you’ve had a few drinks to loosen up, is that almost every other guy in the club is doing the same thing. When you finally get the nerve to approach one of the girls you have been ogling, it’s likely that she’s already had five to ten slightly drunk, slightly sloppy guys approach her before you even got there.
Even if your approach is amazing and you are one hundred percent confident and genuine, you’re success has already been impacted by the ten other losers that have approached her before you. She will assume that you are in the same category, and who can blame her?
You need to beat the crowd. If you can get into the habit of approaching girls at nine, ten, or eleven o’clock at night when you’re still sober; first, you’re going to beat everyone else to the chase, and second, you’re going to demonstrate some great qualities about yourself. How many guys actually have the courage to approach hot girls while they’re sober? This will go a long way with her.
The second key is to work the room.
This falls along the same line with getting in early and doing lots of approaches. In the early stages of the night what you want to do is focus on being social. Do lots of little approaches just to break the ice and to get to know people. You want to be seen as the friendly sociable person who knows everyone.
Just make yourself go around the room, moving from one person to the next. All your doing is making small talk, such as a simple “hi”, or “hey, how’s it going?”. This is all that is required at this point. What this does is it gives you the appearance of being socially accepted by other people. It almost gives you a sense that you know every single person at the club. Social proof is one of the most poweful forces in the dating girl. If a girl sees that you come pre-approved by otehr women, her attraction for you will sky rocket.
When you decide to re-approach a particular girl later on in the night, that one girl that stood out when you were making your rounds, you’ve already warmed her up. You already have some momentum with her and now it becomes that much easier to have a deeper interaction later on.
The third key is you have to know your venue.
Simply put, be aware of where the high traffic areas are, and know where the isolation areas are. When you first go into a club, especially if it’s one you’ve never attended before, make every effort to walk around and get your bearings. Notice which girls are there and make a mental list of the girls you are attracted to.
What you’re doing is trying to get an idea of the logistics of the club, essentially getting a feel of the place. You need to know, without an instants hesitation where the best isolation areas are. The reason for this should be obvious. When you meet a girl and you have connected, you want to have a place in mind so you can gently guide her towards it. Isolation is where the real game is played at, and having good isolation logistics is a critical component of that.
If there is a quiet part of the club with comfy couches, then that’s your spot. If it’s a little darker and out of site then that’s a bonus. You also want to know where the high traffic areas are. High traffic areas are brilliant for low investment openers. You can literally place yourself in a high traffic area, and girls will seemingly gravitate toward you. High traffic areas are the Venus flytrap of approaching. It brings women into your proximity, because your proximity is right where all the action is.
If you are not in a high traffic area, then how are you going to brush up against women and chat them up. It’s impossible. Get in the middle of things and walk around and act like you are part of the crowd. If you haveave like you belong there, then people will believe it. Be part of the crowd. Connect the people around you. That’s how you get noticed, and how you stand out from other guys. There’s no quicker way to build attraction with hot women.
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