Why a relationship could be the best thing that ever happened to you.
Most guys are scared of relationships but here is why they could be the best thing for you AND your sex life.
Don’t go backwards.
For the most part and with most relationships, the way they happen is that people almost fall backwards into a relationship. They might have had a girlfriend simply because they knew the girl from high school and spent so much time together that it eventually led to a relationship; but a lot of the time those relationships aren’t that good for you, or aren’t necessarily with the kind of people that are best for you. This is where a lot of guys get their fear of relationships.
Get the woman you want.
One of the important things about starting to go on more dates is that not only will you start to realize that you are a person of value, but you can start to know what it is that you’re looking for in women, and start to qualify and filter out the kind of women that perhaps don’t suit you for the kind of life that you want.
As an example, if sex is important to you and you really want women who are more sexually open, that’s something that you want to qualify your women on at some point. Now, you probably don’t want to do it right from the get-go, but its definitely something that you want to work towards, because there’s no point getting a girl that’s perhaps a devout Christian when you’re someone who’s very sexual; and then trying to convert her to being sexual herself. There’s a good chance she just won’t be like that. Then again, there are exceptions to this rule; but my point would be to focus on really qualifying the women to be the kind of women that you would want to be dating.
Shaping can be very powerful too, and it’s a great way for directing the relationship in the direction you want it to be taking. It can be a great way to set things up in such a way that she might be more inclined to be involved in that sort of relationship with you – even if she first hinted at wanting something more.
Punish her. Reward her.
A great way that you can shape a woman is by focusing on punishment and reward. I’d say this is a bit more of a technique for the guys who are already dating a few women and are used to going on more dates. I’d say for guys who are new to the whole dating experience, that the biggest focus should just be about how you can get more dates and getting into more situations where you are one-on-one with women. That’s more important than anything else at this point.
For the guys who are perhaps a little more advanced, shaping can be a very powerful tool. Get into the habit of framing sex as a reward for her good behavior. Rewarding her for her compliance is a powerful way to get her to engage in sex, build attraction, and make it easier for you to move the relationship while maintaining control of the direction that the relationship takes.
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