There are actually five simple steps to the perfect date.
They are not hard and 9/10 times they will get you laid, or a second date if you are the romantic type.
Step #1 – Have a plan
First, you must have a date planned out. A date plan is something that you’ve structured and written down on paper, but it is only a loose guide to how you want the date to go. What I’ve found with this is that you want to have enough instructions that you know what you’re going to be doing; but enough flexibility so that you’ve also got that ability to change if something comes up or if other opportunities present themselves.
Step #2 -Identify the end goal, and work backwards
The second thing that you want to focus on when you’re creating a date plan is what the end in mind is. Is your end goal to get a kiss? Is your end goal to take her back to your or her place and have sex?
Whatever your end goal is, you need to be beginning with that in mind, and then progressively working back to the start. That way you can actually plan how you’re going to get her from the initial starting point back to your place.
Step #3 – Incorporate movement
Step number three is to incorporate movement. What that means is that if you spend two hours at the same place – it’s not that it’s a bad result, but it’s not going to be nearly as impactful and effective as if you were to go to five different places over those two hours. What happens is you create a time distortion.
Maybe people can relate to this where they’ve been able to fit a whole lot of activities into one day and they’ve just got a sense of “Wow, I covered so much today.” The same is true when we’re on a date with someone and you’re getting a whole bunch of stuff done.
Step #4 – Get her to invest
Step number four is allowing for some sort of investment on her part. Maybe you organize for her to meet you somewhere and you ask her to bring a bottle of wine. Maybe you ask for her to come and pick you up on the way to the date. Maybe when you get to the date you tell her, “I’ve just got to go to the toilet. Why don’t you get the first round of drinks and I’ll get the round after that?” Any way that you can get her to invest will result in her becoming more attracted and committed to whatever she has invested in.
Step #5 – Make your intentions clear from the outset
When you are sealing the deal on the original date, and you’re setting it up; make it really clear what the purpose is. Be very direct about it. Tell her that you like her and you’d like to get to know her in a different environment. What a lot of guys will do is say, “Ah, this great new restaurant just opened up. We should go there some time and check it out.” In such a case, the girl is a bit murky about what your intentions are.
You think it’s really clear because she’s a girl and you’re a guy. However, she doesn’t know if you’re approaching her from a friend perspective, or if you’re approaching her from the perspective of being interested. You want to clear up any of that miscommunication from the start, because it will make things a lot easier down the road.
Dating is great and can be a lot of fun but we all know that for the night to be a success from the point of view of the guy – there has to be sex.
So how can you be sure that you have not wasted your time with the dinner and drinks and that she IS going to sleep with you? My advice is to arm yourself with this secret weapon. The psychological tricks revealed here will cause her legs to spring open every time.
Hurry up though, it takes just five minutes to view but could be ripped down at any moment.
