Congratulations! You’re in bed with a girl.
But now what things do you say, before you have sex?
Don’t worry… I’ve got it all worked out for you.
Here are some specific ideas to make sure that whatever you say in bed leads to a happy conclusion. The best things you can say are things that make her feel comfortable, sexy, and help her bring out her inner wild woman. The more comfortable and relaxed she is, the more she will be able to open up and express the true sexual creature that she is.
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Phrases like this will make her feel more comfortable:
“I really feel comfortable here…”
“No rush, let’s take our time and enjoy it.”
“You seem really relaxed.”
“It’s great how you can express yourself so confidently.”
“I feel like we’ve known each other for a long time…”
If you want to make her feel sexier during lovemaking, say things like:
“Wow, you are so hot!”
“Your skin is so soft and smooth…”
“I’ve never felt anything like this before.”
“You are so tight.”
“You are amazing, this is the best thing I’ve ever felt.”
“This is magic.”
“I’m so blown away.”
And if you just want to bring out her inner wild woman, try saying things like:
“I like it when you do that, do it more!”
“You have such a wild side, keep bringing it out, I love it!”
Put her on top of you, then say “Here, take control and dominate me….”
“You are so free and expressive – that’s so sexy. Keep going…”
“You have such a naughty side! So wild!”
“I’m going to rip your clothes off!”
Do you talk enough before sex?
Talking before you have sex helps create the mood and boosts any chemistry and attraction between you. In fact, talking before sex is one of the most important parts of a healthy sex life. If you know what to say before sex, you’ll be able to enjoy intimate moments to the maximum. If you do it right, you can turn her on, make her more sexually aggressive, and have her like you more. And that has a side benefit of helping your confidence, making you more relaxed, and making the entire lovemaking process more of a team sport than just you doing all of the work. Women can be insecure, self-conscious, and shy about their bodies – so it helps when you are able to put them at ease and encourage them to come out of their shell.
What other magical words are there?
Most men use “I love you” or similar words to make their women feel comfortable and ready for sex. There are lots of other words that you can use before sex like dirty talk, specifically sexy talk, etc. Say whatever you like, but try not to use weird words or language that doesn’t add to the mood. Bear in mind that different girls have different expectations of what should be said before sex. Some girls want you to be more romantic and loving, and some will want it to be dirtier or more crazy. Part of the art of being amazing with women is to become skilled at creating an atmosphere where girls feel comfortable letting loose and going crazy with you.
Do you understand what makes her unique?
One thing that will really help you know exactly what to say before sex is understanding the differences between women and how separate types prefer you to behave in the bedroom. There are vast differences between women’s likes and dislikes. If you have some skill, then you’ll be able to identify what sort of girl you like and how you can tailor your strategy to suit. But don’t put too much effort into it. Don’t worry about pre-planning every little thing you say before sex. Once you figure out what to say before sex through experience, you’ll be able to have a truly satisfying sex life before, during, and after your time in bed!
What, you still haven’t gotten her into bed!?! Want to discover why? It’s simple really. You aren’t asking the right questions and you aren’t saying the right things…to GET her into bed. (It’s different than what you say once you’ve got her there). Get your fool-proof game plan to get her into bed for FREE…