Your thinking patterns affect your whole approach to life and relationships…
And are an important key to your success with women.
Read on for all the details.
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Our thinking patterns affect or distort the way that we perceive reality.
When we start learning ways to approach women, if we go into the interaction looking down on the situation, or looking down on the women, the events or the way we interpret what’s going on will always going to be a reflection of what we’re thinking. If you can imagine, it’s like wearing blue-tinted glasses. If you wear blue-tinted glasses while looking around at your world, everything is going to appear blue. Your perceptions of the world, and your idea of reality, is colored through those lenses. It’s the same thing with your thinking patterns.
Positive thinking patterns are very important.
This is especially true in regard to having positive beliefs about women. You must understand that women have a healthy desire for sex and that women aren’t bitches. The fact is, they’re not in opposition to us, and this isn’t a battle! Rather, it’s something we both are in together, and we both want to get to that same end point. However, our approach, how we go about this as men or women, is going to vary.
There are powerful ways you can change your thinking patterns about dating and women, right now.
A new way for guys to start looking at this would be to take the time to step back, and stop being so focused on trying to get sex from women. That’s right — back off on the push for sex, and think about the bigger picture. You should start to think: “How am I making this woman’s day better? How am I adding something new to her life?”
Take a moment, or the whole next week, to work on this attitude toward your interactions with women. Try to incorporate a positive thinking pattern that’s bigger than just the sex, whether it’s on the streets or just in passing. How can you contribute something positive to her life?
How can you be giving her something, rather than just trying to take something from her?
When you start to focus on the idea of you giving her something, and you are able to do this in a healthy way, not only are you going to be more attractive, but the way that you interact with women is going to shift drastically. This will change, even though you’re still going to want to have sex with women. Your entire thinking pattern around dating will expand, and you’ll be able to have all that sex — and a lot of other great things too.
Start checking in with yourself, to see what kind of beliefs you have about women and yourself. Start taking responsibility for the results you get. Didn’t get somewhere with a woman? It may seem like it’s the woman’s fault, but what you have to keep in mind is that some guy is going to approach that woman, and he’ll be able to get through to her. How? It might not necessarily have anything to do with who she is as a person, but rather with the approach. Your mindset may be affecting your results with the women in your life. When you get your mindset right and learn how to make women attracted to you, you’ll be way ahead in the game…
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