Does that lip lick mean “I want you now” or “I’m thirsty”?
A woman gives dating signals that are total giveaways – but most guys still miss them
Be better than most by being the guy who gets it and her…
Is it time to move forward?
A big part of the problem for guys is that they wait for the signal. By this I do not mean the girl is not going to be giving them the signal, but from my experience with coaching men on becoming better with women, and providing them with thousands of different approaches, I have quickly realized that the male population is unbelievably poor at being able to spot even the most obvious female signals.
You suck with signals.
The first step is to abandon the concept of being passive and waiting for signals. This is very reactionary. We are better off being more aggressive, going on the offensive, and not worrying whether the signal is there. If a girl is cute, then you can assume attraction, assume that she is going to be into you on a physical level, on an emotional level, then you do not need to wait for signals.
If you think of some of the people who have been highlighted as being celebrities in the art of meeting women, it’s evident to me that they do not wait for signals. They create signals. That would be the first thing that I would encourage guys to do. If they are interested in a girl, and are interested in exploring whether they have a sexual connection with her. And if furthermore you think that she might eventually have the potential of being a good candidate for a girlfriend, then just go out, be direct with her, and tell her that.
What might happen — even if there were no signals previously — is that because you confidently approached her, and you stated with self-confidence what it is that you want, then you might actually be able to create signals where there were none.
You make the moves.
The other important part of understanding this is that even in the modern age guys are still expected to go and make the first move. It is a very rare scenario where a girl will go out of her way to be directly interested in a guy. In her eyes, her way of being direct is by making eye contact with a guy, standing near a guy, flirting with a guy, touching a guy, and in her mind, she just thinks that this is so direct. It is so much out of her character that she is almost reluctant to flirt that hard with a guy.
That she would actually go out and tell a guy that she is interested in him, and that she wants to go out on a date, is a rare scenario that hardly ever happens. Many of the guys I speak to tell me it would be great if a girl would be able to make the first move on them. Get over it. It is not going to happen, and if it does happen, it is almost like winning a lottery, a jackpot.
You are happy to take it but you certainly do not want to rely on it. I think it is time for guys to acknowledge that they need to be responsible in leading the interaction, and when they do actually take responsibility, and begin to ask girls out, they start to realize that it is not that challenging of a process. It is just a matter of putting their balls on the line and going for it, and being open to the possibility of rejection.
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