Can't they understand....I don't want to be just friends!!!!
What’s the secret to getting out of the friend zone?
There are many things you can do to get out of the friend zone. The most important is to pay attention to your actions from day one of meeting a girl. What this means is that you’re never allowing a relationship to escalate to a point where she’s so comfortable with you that she’s asking you for advice about other guys. This is a clear indicator that you’ve fallen into the friend zone. Now if you are struggling to get out of the friendship zone, then look at Attraction Code, which will give you some of the secrets on how to change your relationship.
The following tips will help you to make sure that you do not fall into this zone
1. Become a lot more physical with the way that you are talking with her.
Do not be shy to become more physical when you talk to a girl. This means that when you’re talking use your hands to touch her and use your hands to escalate. Use your body language to touch hers and get close to her. Touching makes a woman feel that she is attractive and desirable, and if you do it the right way she will be very receptive and respond to you in the same way.
2. Flirting takes you out of the friend zone and into the next reality.
It’s important to flirt because that allows you to distinguish that you aren’t just a friend because friends don’t flirt with each other. Look for things that are obvious that you can flirt about. Let’s say that you notice that she’s wearing a thong. Tell her, “Damn, I really like that thong that you’re wearing.” There are so many ways that you can flirt but it’s important that you do this and that you don’t keep your conversations too generic and boring.
3. Emphasize your sexuality.
Somehow you need to display and demonstrate to her that you are a sexual being, you do love women, and that women do like you as well. You can do this by telling her stories about experiences that you’ve had or girls that have chased you but you have turned down because for some reason you didn’t find them attractive. You need to make sure that you do not come across as bragging but rather that the other girls found you desirable but were not of the same standard as she is.
4. Increase your social circle.
Get out and meet more guys, meet more girls, and just improve your social skills. The more girls you meet and the more options you have, the more jealous she will feel. The more she feels like she has something to lose, the greater the chances are that she will ensure that she doesn’t put you into the friend zone. You need to make the girl feel that sh is really missing out on something big by just being your friend
5. Be a man and make your move.
It is very important that you somehow demonstrate that you are interested in her and that you don’t want to just be a friend. You don’t have to be too direct and tell her, “I like you. I like you a lot and I want to be with you” but you can make subtle comments and subtle gestures that you are interested in her. It can be something like saying, “Wow, I’m really drawn to you and I don’t know why” or “Man, I really like spending time with you. You’re a really fun girl. I hope I don’t fall in love with you” and laugh and wink.
You see, it’s important to pay attention to the logistics of the relationship from day one. What may have started out as a frienship does not mean that it has to stay in the friend zone – if you want it to be more it to be more, then you have to make that happen.
