When it comes to learning how to pick up women, there are a couple of key books that will help you gain the knowledge to interact better with women, understand women better, and not only just be good with women but be good in social situations. These books will help you be a great networker, be good in business, and possess the necessary people skills to help you through life.
1. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
In the 1930s and over the years, this book has been one of the bestselling self-help books purely because its information is timeless; it helps you make friends quickly and easily, increase your popularity, and help you win people to your way of thinking.
It gets you out of your mental state, it gives you new thoughts, new visions, new ambitions, increases your influence, your prestige, and your ability to get things done. It also enables you to win new clients, which increases your earning power. The book has great information to make you a better salesman and a better executive.
The book helps you handle complaints, avoid arguments, keep human contact pleasant, make you a better speaker and a more entertaining conversationalist. It makes the principles of psychology easy for you to apply in your daily life and helps you to arouse enthusiasm amongst other people.
All this is vital to meeting more women and improving your social life in general.
2. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
This book talks about transformation of individual and collective human consciousness through global spiritual awakening. So, basically you are not your thoughts, you are the awareness behind the thoughts, only the present moment exists.
Becoming aware of the now has the added benefit that will draw your attention away from your negative thoughts. Accepting the present moment, it is a resistance to the present moment that creates most of the difficulties in your life and observing the pain by the use of conditional thought patterns individually and collectively have resulted in habitual emotional reactions with an apparent personality of their own.
All these are really crucial to how you interact with women when you’re trapped in negative thoughts. When you’re feeling sorry for yourself, it can really detract from showing your true personality and the true side of you. Eckhart Tolle teaches you how to be in the moment and be present while not concerning yourself with the negative chatter that’s in your head, which includes not worrying about what’s going to happen in the future or what had happened in the past, live more in the now.
3. My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday
This is another crucial book when learning how to be better with picking up women. Nancy Friday’s book talks a lot about women’s fantasies and their sexual thoughts which can help you especially if you’re a guy that hasn’t had a lot of sexual experience to understand that women think and fantasize about sex a lot. Women also genuinely value a guy that can take control and be almost a masculine dominant figure.
4. The Attraction Code by Vin Dicarlo
The Attraction Code is one of the best starting products to get good with women and help with picking up women. It covers a wide range of aspects if you’re a guy that’s just learning how to get good with women like getting out of the friend zone, getting more dates, and having attractive body language. The book will also help you approach women effectively and eliminate any inner game issues that are pushing you away from women.
5. Pandora’s Box
Pandora’s Box is also a must have for any guy that wants to learn how to be good with women. It gets you in the mind of the female and helps you understand female psychology. Pandora’s Box sheds the light on the eight different types of female personalities and how you can instantly know the things that attract her personality type, the words to use, the actions to take.
So, whenever you’re with a girl, you’re never left wondering how to attract her, you know exactly what her personality type is and you know the right way to go about attracting her instantly.
This stuff is cutting edge and it’s based on technology used by the CIA and the Navy. This will give you an almost unfair advantage over any guy when meeting women.
Pick up some of these books, start reading, then begin applying the secrets in each book. You will instantly see an increase in confidence and the number of women you are able to pick up!