Once you understand human nature and social dynamics, you’ll hold the key to life.
Life is dependent on social situations and interaction, unless your a hermit and like it that way. We all need to understand why social dynamics is important to life.
Social dynamics are really the glue that holds the structure of society together. They are the undercurrent that you feel when you are in any social situation. It’s also related to social hierarchy, and every species survival is based on this principle. Darwin called it “the survival of the fittest”, and although we really don’t relate it to that in social interaction, the principle is the same. Understanding human behavior eliminates the social pressures life often creates.
Group social dynamics begins the minute we walk into a room full of people.
When you move into a room of people and you look around that room, on an unconscious level whether you realize it or not, you are essentially accessing where you fit. You start immediately accessing how you relate to the other people. You begin to wonder if you are more sexually attractive than other guys, whether you’re cooler than other guys, or whether they’re cooler than you.
There’s already that undercurrent that’s happening the minute you walk into a room. Once you start an interaction with people, the back and forth dynamics, it’s almost like a dance. In that process—once again on a subconscious level—you process how you feel about this person and your opinion of them. Your opinion of them either rises or drops based on this interaction.
Master the art of social dynamics and you’re dating life will improve.
Once you can master and truly understand human and social dynamics you can use it to your advantage. A lot of guys use their understanding of social dynamics to improve their dating skills.
That’s obviously a major advantage, but as you get better at seeing the social matrix, you’ll notice which girls want to be approached, which girls don’t want to be approached, which girls want to go home for sex right now, and which girls will need a little bit more time.
As you get better at understanding the matrix on that level, you’ll actually be able to utilize those same philosophies and principles and incorporate them into your business life, into your social circle life, and it will increase your abilities at social networking.
Understanding social dynamics requires putting yourself into social situations.
A mission that you can undertake that will help put you on the pathway of understanding social dynamics on a new level is to go out to a club and just spend a couple of hours sitting in a corner. Take a friend with you, and pay attention to everything that is going on around you. Read over Attraction Code, and put what you learn to use in situations like this.
Make it a game, and see if you can identify which guys are going to be successful with girls. Can you identify which girls are looking to be approached, and which girls are looking to hook up? Plus, people watching is a great skill, and you can learn a lot by noticing nuances and the art of body language. People watching can really open your eyes to the real social dynamics blueprint of life.
Social dynamics have been in our lives from the beginning of time. It’s always been there, and will continue until our lives end. Learn what social dynamics is, and it’s importance to life. Once you learn it’s importance, you’ll hold the key to life itself.