Want to Have a Girlfriend? Change Your Approach

| August 17, 2011 | 0 Comments

Get a Girlfriend

Discover the secrets try and get a girlfriend.

It’s time to completely change your approach to getting a girlfriend. Know the facts and try something realistic to get a girlfriend.

Get a Girlfriend

The No.1 Mistake I See Guys Make With Meeting Women

Without a doubt the biggest mistake I see every guy that wants to get good with women is that he tries to meet women in places that are too competitive for his experience level.

If you were learning to do boxing it would be unlikely that at the beginning you’d decide to fight with a guy that was challenging for the world title. I mean very obviously you’d get beaten up.

Imagine going into the ring with Mike Tyson!

Same when you get guys that are a bit naturally shy, are new to sex and building their confidence – meeting girls through approaching them cold in bars and during the day time tends to get them beat up emotionally and doesn’t really get them many results.

Finding Better Ways to Meet Women is Extremely Smart

I’ll give you a reference scale to explain what I mean. 

At 1 is the easiest ways to get a girlfriend – by easy I mean the sources that provide the best opportunity to practice, get results and enjoy the process.

At 10 is the opposite. These are the places that are going to be difficult and provide the most challenging of all.

I recommend as your coach to meet girls through the entire scale. It’s good to meet girls through easier sources to build your confidence whilst still spending time in the more challenging situations to stretch you. A little bit of each is the smartest move.

1 – Being hooked up by a friend with a girl (especially being hooked up by a female friend)

1 – Somewhere that you have an extreme amount of status – like where you are popular

2 – Doing a high volume approach on online dating

3 – Speed dating, singles parties, social events, personals, some backpackers etc

3 – Having a male wing/buddy that is really good with women and hooks you up with girls with little effort on your part

4 – Social events with people you don’t know too intimately, especially when you have something solid in common, and people talk you up a little – for example house parties

5 – Being extremely social in hobbies, and social-type activities, and are good at making friends, and turning it social

6 – Meeting girls through friends in a way that is fairly friendly and relaxed

6 – Accidental or incidental meetings of new people, where it just kind of happens, and isn’t forced (like doing an art tour instead of just walking around during the day trying to approach girls at random)

7 – Meeting girls as you go about your life, for example while you are shopping

8 – Approaching girls in the street at random

8 – Anywhere where your social reputation could get seriously messed up my a major social mistake (close friends, where you have a good image or known reputation)

9 – Busy Nightclub / Bars at peak periods (consistence is key – everyone gets lucky sometime)

10 – Highly competitive places

I’m a big fan of playing the game very SMART when you want to meet girls. Why not choose the road that provides the greatest speed of improvement and is the most fun?

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