It may seem counter-intuitive, but learning how to approach women during the day is a smart strategy.
Most men go on the prowl for women at night, but the truth is that it’s just as easy to pick up a woman during the day.
There are multitudes of ways to approach women and meet more of them that guys aren’t even considering. You can meet a woman at any time of day in any place. More women are out and some women who do not go to the dating hotspots at night become more readily available. So when you think about it, daytime pickups are easier to pull off and give you more women to choose from. I mean… women are everywhere, why are you just waiting until nighttime? You are missing out on so many opportunities. Plus, when you have all these opportunities, when you do go out at night, you don’t have to feel such a pressure to really make it happen.
You can take your time more, because you know there is a wide range of places you can approach women at.
The thing I like most about daytime pickups is that you can actually be a lot more down to earth and still get great results.
When you meet a girl in the daytime, you don’t have to do much more than just hold a bit of a conversation. Going up to her and saying “hi” and having a really down to earth conversation can be enough. Then all you have to do is go for her number. If you see that the vibe and the interaction are going well, you could also try to make things happen sooner. You could do something as simple as inviting her to grab a coffee with you right there and then. I call it an Instant Date and it can be really powerful. Women look at this as a really romantic, movie-like thing. It will get her all bubbly and flirtatious.
How to handle logistics…
The only problem I’ve ever seen men have when they try to learn how to seduce a woman during the day is that sometimes women have prior engagements. If a girl is walking in a certain direction with an agenda, it can be hard to make her stop. This isn’t always a bad thing though. If you can actually walk with her and keep the conversation going, you can consider yourself pretty lucky. You could even interpret this as movement and as you making a move. By walking and talking together, you can distort the amount of time you have been interacting. That, in turn, will increase her attraction level towards you and make her more comfortable with you in the process.
Lengthen the conversation by…
In terms of keeping the conversation going, there are a couple of things you should realize. At the start, she probably won’t invest too much in your conversation, but that’s okay. There’s a few ways in which you can get good at holding the conversation and moving it forward, so she can invest more into it. One of these ways is simply by asking open ended questions, where a yes or no answer just isn’t enough. You can ask things like what the highlight of her day has been or what she plans on doing for the rest of the day. You don’t want to ask questions where she can say yes or no; you want to ask questions where she has to give you a bit more information.
Another really powerful skill is having really sharp conversation and learning about ‘threading’. Simply put, threading is a way to make your statements really punchy and giving her something to react to. You might say something like “I had ice cream the other day it was so hot that the ice cream just melted.” Something simple like that gives her something to react to.
You’ll find that threading comes through naturally with your best friends or with people that you’re comfortable around. You’ll do this with your best friends without it really thinking about it. With some practice you can do it with women, too. It’s especially easy to thread women into a conversation when you pick them up during the daytime, and that can certainly lead to a lot of night time threading to follow.
Overcome the fear of rejection…
The biggest thing about approaching women during the day is that it helps you demolish your fear of rejection. A guy that can approach a woman at anytime and anywhere feels like he is unstoppable. Sure, you will get rejected. The goal isn’t to avoid rejection. I’ve done this for years, but I still get rejected. Some women are just not right for you. You don’t want to please every woman, you want to please the women that are right for you.
The beauty of this is that when you are rejected a certain number of times you get over it. Rejection no longer bothers you. It is something that you can just brush off as you notice that it has nothing to do with you personally. It isn’t a personal rejection. It doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough or that you aren’t attractive. It just means that she isn’t compatible with you.
Look at this game as a long game. If you see a mistake you made, then forgive yourself, learn from it, and move on. You will never have a perfect pick-up, so don’t shoot for perfection. Aim to have fun, help the girl have fun, and leave her better than you found her.
That is the best way to approach women during the day.
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