The best advice to keeping your relationship interesting is to ask yourself this one question.
Do you know what you want?
You would be surprised how guys don’t ask themselves and then put in the time to figure out exactly what it is they want in a relationship. What is interesting to you? Do you want a girl that loves to hike up huge mountains or do you want a girl to sit on the couch with you and soak up the best new movies? Do you want a relationship with a girl who loves to go out dancing or a girl that loves to take cooking classes with you?
Figuring out what you want is the first step to having a relationship that is exciting and fulfilling, yet our culture does a horrible job of teaching guys how to figure out what they want.
I spent a lot of time thinking about what I want in the beginning. I love adventurous girls myself, because I am a very adventurous guy. I love a girl that will travel with me and be ready to go an a spontaneous adventure at the drop of a hat. But it took a lot of thinking and also trial and error to figure that out.
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Here are the tips I learned about how to keep your relationship interesting (so you can have what you want):
1. Take time for yourself.
Every guy needs time to himself. You must take regular time for yourself to have space and time to understand what you want right now. Some guys go for runs, others go mountain biking, other guys take mediation retreats or spend time every day meditating, others do yoga, and other guys go to their garage and work on their car or build a cabinet.
The activity you choose is much less important than taking the time you need to think about what you want.
2. Do what you want.
Some guys lose who they are in their relationships. They subconsciously start to hang out with their girlfriend all of the time. They hang out with their guy friends less and they do less activities that are just for them.
Well, if you want to keep your relationship interesting, then you need to do what you want to do. You need to go hang out with your dude friends and play poker or watch football or have beer and talk.
Maybe you need to start a business that is based around a passion of yours and really devote yourself to it.
3. Focus on your passions.
Women don’t want to be everything in your life.
A lot of guys give up so much of themselves to be in relationships, that they no longer are healthy guys. They are less happy and are less healthy and it starts to come out on their girlfriend. Some guys think they have to spend so much time with her and put her above everything else, when in fact, she doesn’t want to be your everything.
She wants you to live the fullest life you can and include her in your life too.
4. Be creative.
Look to stay out of ruts by continually looking to grow yourself in new ways.
If you have a lot of passions and hobbies, then you can take her out on creative dates. You can take her out on adventures that you will both enjoy and you will always keep things spontaneous. Join some groups you have wanted to join in your area, like a dance class, sports club, or maybe a language group.
Keep your eye on the events calendar in your city or regularly read about the social events happening in your area, then get out and do them.
5. Have more sex.
Sex is the connective bond that keeps a relationship together.
Don’t underestimate the power of sex in your relationship and how it can help you connect with your girlfriend. If you are getting bored in your relationship, then you need to have more sex. Read a book about sex on your own or together and try out new things. Have sex a couple times a day over the weekend. Spend the day laying in bed and focusing on giving the best foreplay that you can to your girl.
Keep your relationship interesting by having more sex, which will help you have even more sex, because she will want it more.
6. Read books and blogs about relationships.
You have started here (way to go, man!) by reading this blog. The more you can understand about relationships, the more you can avoid the stale factor that happens in most modern relationships, once you have gotten to know each other so well.
Get emails about relationship psychology, join the Twitter account of popular relationship advice experts, and always be learning about what scientists are discovering about relationships. There are so fascinating research that is always being done and can really shed some positive light into how you can have your own fulfilling relationship.
7. Don’t be afraid to be different.
Then some guys think they have to be like everybody else.
They need the little job and the car and the house and the family… is this important to you? Really think about what you want and if something isn’t important to you, then don’t get it.
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