Are there easy ways to learn to make out better or should I learn on my own?
Do you think that there are ways that you can improve how well you make out using external sources, such as watching videos or having people tell you what to do?
If you have other questions about making out, please ask in the comments. I answer each one personally.
I’m going to suggest something, but it’s not what you’d expect.
Most people are probably thinking of watching guides to making out on YouTube right now, but I would suggest a more personalized approach. Video record yourself… that’s right. Perhaps think of this as a little experiment you could try out. You can enlist a friend to record video of you from afar while you’re making out.
This will allow you to just watch yourself, and point out to yourself aspects of your technique that you could improve. Or consider taking it back to a friend, a dating coach, or even a female friend: perhaps they can give you pointers or bring your attention to areas that can be improved.
She might tell you how or where to place your hands, that you should be doing it for longer, or on the other hand that your kiss needs to be shorter. I think that such an experiment is a good example of thinking outside the box. Video feedback isn’t new, of course. I know they do a lot of that kind of thing in sports, so that players can watch a video analysis of themselves from the side.
I find your suggestion of having video taken of you and a girl for feedback purposes to be very intriguing. Do you think it is important to ask for permission before you do anything?
Yeah, definitely. Not only is it respectful of the girl, but it is probably a good idea to avoid having any legal issues. The way you tell her is to basically just say that you’re including her in your betterment process. Whether she agrees or not comes down to how well you can communicate this.
I am a musician, and I know that when I’m on camera, and the camera is sitting right in front of me, I just seem to perform better. So even just the fact of having it there is making you more aware of your body, your movements – and so your performance ought to improve just from that.
This can be true, although I should point out that unfortunately, for some people it is the exact opposite. Of course, if you’re one of those people, you could always just see this as a good opportunity to practice and get over things like that.
It will teach you how to better come out of your shell. For starters, you might be super shy, or you can’t perform because of stage fright, but I know that in my case, I definitely perform better if I know that somebody else is going to be watching my performance.
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