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Perhaps the biggest priority in your life right now is to figure out how to pick up a girl, or maybe girls in general.
I want to talk about some things you can do to pick up a girl, even if you’re not naturally the sort of guy who seems to find it easy to have conversations with girls. The goal of picking up a girl can be harder sometimes than it seems. A lot of guys who want to get good with girls often have some natural disadvantages.
They may have something that holds them back and makes being good with girls harder than it is for the average guy. I would put these disadvantages into three main categories.
If you’re the kind of guy who definitely finds it difficult to just easily and naturally be good with girls, it just seems harder for you; it could be because of one of these three reasons. When I wanted to go out on the weekend and pick up a girl I found it really hard at the beginning. I want to give you a bit of a plan for how to overcome each of these, if they relevant to you, so you can predictably pick up a girl whenever you want.
The first challenge guys face in picking up girls is, I would call the mental category.
This can include feeling depressed, or being a slow learner, or even a condition like Asperger’s. Even if you have something like ADHD, problems concentrating, or you just have difficulty with different types of learning, then often you’re going to find it very difficult to get good with girls, or at least just a little harder than average. This doesn’t mean it has to be that way at all. It is very easy to overcome these disadvantages so long as you’re willing to put in the work. The objective to pick up a girl is no different from achieving any other goal.
I’ve seen countless students deal with these kinds of things and not let them hold them back. What you need to do is think about what you need to do to treat or overcome any mental issues that are going on, and increase it by five or ten times. What I find is that with most guys who have been living with these kinds of things for so long, they don’t appreciate how bad they’ve got it. Whatever you think you need to do, magnify it by at least five to ten times. If you want to get serious about the goal, it’s really important that you put in a real effort to make it happen. I really call B.S. when I hear a guy say, “I’ve done everything I can to solve this,” because usually the guy has barely tried anything at all.
Number two is the attractiveness quality.
You may have some disadvantage like being really short, or ugly, or just generally not being physically the sort of guy whom women approach or generally want to have sex with instantly. Let me tell you something: I’m not in that category ether. This is why when I wanted to get girls, it was harder for me than most. I have been born in a such way where I’m just not naturally the guy that women seem to put in their “I want to have sex with straight away” category. But that hasn’t stopped me from sleeping with more girls than just about anyone I’ve ever met. If you want to pick up a girl you’ve got to be open-minded about improving yourself.
I have two tips for you: One is to accept the stuff you cannot change.
If you’re a certain height, certain build, certain nationality, or something else, you’ve got certain features that you can’t change, so just accept them. Don’t be hung up on them. When I was young I remember going to bed for months at a time with an ice pack on my nose because I thought my nose was big. What I realized was that this was ridiculous; there was nothing wrong with it.
But what you want to do is work hard on the things you can change.
If you’re overweight, go on a body transformation. I started to pick up girls every time I went out when I got more comfortable with my appearance. Change your body. Lose weight, get in shape, and improve your clothes. Make your image more up to date. You know, you may not be born with the most natural attributes, but that doesn’t mean you can’t do the absolute best with what you’ve got.
The third one is some social disadvantage.
Dating is definitely harder if you’re in a social situation in which you’ve got not money, or you are located where there aren’t many people, or you’ve got some other disadvantage that causes you to be towards the bottom of the social ladder.
Let me tell you, this can be fixed because I had a lot of social disadvantages when I was learning to be good with girls, and not only did I end up being good with girls, but I ended up increasing my income, becoming more popular in general, making a lot of friends, and being someone who was really respected. They have done studies and being socially unpopular was actually very stressful – and this will hurt your chances with girls more than almost anything else.
What I encourage you to do if you’re a guy who finds picking up girls harder than average, really make sure that if there’s one of these three things going on that you leave no stone unturned, take massive action to resolve them and to make sure they’re not standing in your way of having the girls you want. This way you can go out, pick up a girl with confidence, make fast dates, and start to live more.
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