Don’t get hung up on try to be the perfect guy for all women.
Instead be the kind of guy you want to be and attract the perfect woman for you to you
Guys might be confused about what a girl finds attractive, or they might not have any idea.”I’m just a guy, what the hell is she going to like in me?” “I’m just a guy, I’m not that interesting.” A lot of these guys are really analytical, thinking about things a lot, so we are only thinking,
“What do I have to offer this girl?”
Hone your self-image.
All these questions that you are asking are about self esteem, self confidence, self assurance, or self image. Really a good idea for a guy is work on his self image. A good way to go about this is to get a friend to give you some feedback. Go to one of your guy friends or your female friends and say, “What is my self image to you? What perception comes across when you interact with me? When you think about me, what kind of guy am I? How would you sum me up in a few words?”
Be aware of your image.
Ask yourself what your self image is and write down what comes to mind and then think about what self image you want to portray. Are you at this moment the kind of shy guy? Are you maybe a gamer or a nerd? You might be outgoing or intelligent; you might be academic; you might be a boy next door; you might be the athletic type. There are so many different types of self image that you can present to the world. Working on your self image is really going to be good for your confidence and really good for your identity.
What image do you want to give off?
So come up with that identity you want to portray. There’s a common archetype that girls go for – there’s the bad boy type; or the provider type; or the punk guy; or the alternative guy. Maybe even a gangster type. All these different archetypes, you can find out what they are, there’s a lot more. So do a study of those.
Then you can pick one or pick a couple and mold them together and devise your little plan of how you’re going to make your self image one that appeals to the women you want. So I could tell what type of women you’re after, because certain types of women want to go for one type of guy, just because of how he looks. So that’s one thing to keep in mind also.
Focus on inside and out.
With the self image, keep in mind both the exterior and interior of how you see yourself. Then there is the exterior of how the world per sees you, so getting a makeover is a really good idea. Get someone to come in and look in your closet and throw out the clothes, get a professional in that does this for a living. Throw out clothes that don’t do you any good. Fill your wardrobes with clothes that really make you feel good and feel confident.
You’ll find the difference when you walk out of the house; it’s going to be tenfold. You’re going to feel good; you are going to have women looking in your direction, and it’s going to give you really good confidence when you do leave the house, which will result in you being comfortable going out into the world and meeting girls.
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