Dear Vin,
What’s the most common question you find yourself answering for guys who are just starting out…and guys with pro experience?
~Ryan, Seattle
Well Ryan, they want to know “What exactly is it that women like?”
Feeling safe in your arms is just part of the equation; read below to find out exactly what women like and want from their man.
I think there are three key things that women look for in a relationship and their man; security, excitement and pleasure.
Would you like some guidance on any of these three key traits? Put your comments at the bottom of the article and I’ll answer these personally.
1. Security – Physical, Financial and Emotional
The first is security. Women want to feel safe, and when we think about security we think about them feeling physically safe.
That’s certainly a big part of it, I think it’s one of the reasons that women are biologically and evolutionary attracted to guys who are a little bit bigger and maybe in fairly good shape.
However, it’s only one element. There’s a variety of other ways that we can essentially offer women security. Financial security is one way, and it’s one of the reasons why there’s this perception that guys who have got a lot of money will also get a lot of girls, because the girl will feel financially secure.
Of course, that’s only a very small part of the equation. But there is no questioning that providing security in a financial sense is going to definitely be seen as a positive thing by a girl.
The big key to security is emotional security. Girls want to feel safe in your presence, like there’s a safe space. They want to feel like they’re not going to be judged and they want to feel like they can just be themselves. A lot of girls in modern society can’t do that. They feel like they’re going to be judged negatively if they actually connect to their true self, and the difference between men and women is closing.
2. Excitement
Now the second thing that women need is excitement. They need to feel like they’re alive. The problem with most women in relationships is they just don’t get that sense of excitement.
There’s no passion.
There’s no adventure to the relationship. And those things are critically important. You might not jump off a tower into a small amount of water, but could your life be more exciting?
Being able to demonstrate that if she spends time with you that she’s going to have a lot of fun and that she’s going to have a lot of enjoyment, that can be a huge plus.
3. Extreme Pleasure
The third thing that she needs is unbelievable pleasure. So our ability to touch a girl, our ability to take her to a sexual place, our ability for us to connect with her sexually and make her feel like a sexual creature is incredibly important.
Those are the three things that girls look for from their guys. It’s interesting that a lot of the time, if you stereotype and pick out different personalities from the male population, a lot of men will have one of those particular qualities. It’s a rare thing to find a guy who possesses all three.
So, if you can be that for her then she’s going to become attracted to you on a level that’s so deep that you will no longer have to think ‘what happens if she leaves me for another guy’, or you no longer have to be concerned when you see her flirting with other guys because you know that you have something that very few guys can actually compete with. You are irreplaceable to her.
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