Need help with autism?
If you have a syndrome, like autism or Asperger’s you could have a much harder time meeting women than the normal guy.
Here’s the information you need…
Is meeting women impossible?
Without a doubt, one of the most difficult situations in meeting women is if you’re suffering something like Asperger’s Syndrome or autism. These situations directly affect your social skills. One of the most difficult parts of having autism is struggling with empathy, but you know what? It’s not the end of the world. I have seen guys that suffer from very difficult conditions, such as autism, be able to get to a reasonable level with meeting women.
Don’t add pressure.
At the same time, it’s worth understanding the challenge of it and also your limitations, so you don’t put too much pressure on yourself. You shouldn’t give yourself unrealistic expectations. One thing that really helped me with dating was when I realized that not every woman is going to like me. When I was younger and a woman didn’t want to date me, because perhaps she didn’t find me attractive, for me it always felt like the end of the world.
Some women always want you.
I felt like it meant there was something wrong with me as a human, and I was really ugly and that no one wanted me. Now I realize that just because some women don’t like me, there’s other women out there who do like me. It’s not the end of the world. It’s just a normal part of the process. Everyone out there is going to have some hits and some misses. What I’d probably recommend is look at autistic dating sites, to begin with.
There are things you can do…
Look for ways you can connect with people who are maybe suffering from something similar, or people who have experience with this condition. They’ll be able to give you a lot more understanding, and they’ll be a lot more empathetic in the process. I also encourage you to leave no stone unturned, to minimize the symptoms of autism. Everything from your diet to exercise, to doing neuro feedback and various social activities and exercises that you can do to help minimize some of the symptoms.
Really work hard to focus on some of your weaknesses and look to get them to a more moderate level.
It’s definitely going to be hard work, and it might even be a bit painful, but it’s definitely worth it in the long run. Speak with your doctor about medications, therapies and support groups. You might even meet someone in one of those support groups and find that you really click because of the commonality. It is definitely worth looking into.
Do you have questions? Ask in the comments below and I’ll answer each one personally.
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