What is kinesthetics? I bet your wondering what the hell kind of word that is, and what can it possibly have to do with women…
The definition of kinesthetics essentially means touch. I bet your starting to get it now. Touch has everything to do with women. There are some really critical principles that a guy needs to follow to master the art of touch. If there is one particular part of this game that I think is more important than any other, it’s the ability to master touch and the ability to master escalation touch.
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The first critical mistake guys make is they learn one touch that works and then stick with it.
Maybe it’s the back of her elbow, maybe it’s up on her shoulder, or maybe it’s a high five, and so they just keep going back to that move. Haven’t you learned by now that women are not one size fits all?
Bodily kinesthetic simply means that you vary the way you touch a girl, vary the places you touch her, vary the lengths of time that you touch her for, and vary the pressure of the touch. This way you are really accentuating the pleasure that she feels around her entire body.
Learn to let what you’ve touched almost fly under the radar, which is referred to as incidental touching.
Whether it’s touching a girl through gesturing and lightly pressing her arm or her body, or it’s touching a girl and not looking where you are touching so that she is not even aware of it, or even touching a girl while you are talking, anything that you can do to help the touch go under the radar is really important.
The reason this is important is because the more touches you can get to fly under the radar, the more on a sub-conscious level she acknowledges it and she gets comfortable with the idea of you touching her. Touching definitely attracts women, and this is a great way for you to get touches in without her feeling as if you are groping.
This way when you go on to a more overt touch a little bit later on, she is far more likely to accept it, because now it seems more natural for her. She also has this backwards rationalization that is going through her head where she justifies the fact that you touch her and she equates this to you being attracted to her, otherwise why would she accept your level of touch?
It is essential for you to cement that incidental touch with more overt touch.
Overt is a physical gesture that acknowledges the fact that you are now interested in her, and if you get really great at being able to touch a girl incidentally, you will find that an overt touch just seems like a natural part of the process. Physical contact flirting is very sexy to a woman.
While you’re talking with a girl, simply hold her hand for a period of time. Then gently take her hand and set it on your leg and leave it there. Hug on a girl for a bit while your chatting and then reach over for a kiss. Tactile kinesthetic means just that, it’s a simple as a physical sensation. If you can master these three components of touch it will transform the way you approach women, and the results you have with them.
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