How to attract women: What do you say?
Read on to get the most powerful ways that never fail to attract women…
You can be a different person.
I caught up with one of my students yesterday. You should’ve seen this guy a year ago! He was so shy that when I had a coffee with him, he could barely speak. He struggled to hold eye contact, his voice was muffled and he lacked any bit of confidence. He had no idea how to attract women. But now? Wow. Complete change. I was talking to him about how much he had improved over the last year, and about how much more successful he’s become with women. Just this week, he told me he had five dates – and now he finds taking girls home from bars to be very easy.
Women respond to nonverbal.
He even picked up a girl without even talking – he simply kissed her and took the lead! Yesterday he remarked that when he was starting out, he put far too much emphasis on worrying about trying to say the right thing. He now realizes that what you say isn’t that important. I was delighted to observe this major shift for him. He’s finally begun to realize that more than 95% of the process of attracting women is nonverbal.
Don’t worry about what to say…
Things like body language, facial expressions, the image and energy you project have far more to do with whether or not you’re going to be successful than the magic words of a pick up line or some specially crafted sentence to start a conversation. I’m not surprised it took him a while to catch on, though. It’s normal when guys start out, when they see an attractive girl and want to start a conversation – it’s very common for them to spend lots of time thinking about what they should say to attract women.
But this is a waste of time, as my student now knows. What I recommend for guys to do at the start is to keep it very simple verbally. I’ve picked up more girls by just saying “hi” than anything else. When you start out, you should begin by experimenting with different levels and strengths of eye contact. You can also test the responses that a louder or softer voice, or various facial expressions, will get.
Stand up straight.
Pay attention to everything, not just your words! Stand up straighter. Avoid apologetic body language like slumping or shrinking away, and make sure you’re standing close enough to a girl when you talk to her. All these things are much more important than anything you could possibly say. For example, if you are too far away from a girl when you go to start a conversation – no matter what you say, she’ll tend to ignore you. No, it’s not because she doesn’t like you. It’s because humans tend to act instinctively, and if you stand too far away… you are actually rejecting yourself. If you don’t even like yourself…why should she?
Light touches work.
Start testing the effect of a light touch on her response, and practice starting conversations both with a strong smile and without one. You need to discover these secrets, and build your self-awareness, before you can attract women the way you want to. Your discoveries might be life-changing realizations, like they were for my student. They might give you an increased self-awareness, help you eradicate bad habits you weren’t even aware of, fight limiting mindsets, or any number of other things that get in your way. Above all, figure it out for yourself – learn something about yourself, by yourself, without having to be taught or old.
Go do it yourself.
As a coach, I’ve learned that discovering something for yourself ends up being a far more powerful lesson than being told about something. We often naturally resist what we are told. But if we discover it for ourselves, it can cause dramatic positive change. Of course, it’s hard, as a coach, to not just tell the student what you notice obviously, and allow them to figure it out for himself. But that’s my job – not to do it for you but to facilitate your own discovery process and awareness. Awareness is the difference between a guy that is very experienced and an expert with women, and a guy that is just starting out. Pay more attention to what seems to work and what doesn’t. Repeat the things that you notice have a good effect – and stop doing the things that don’t get you where you want to go!
If you learn something from each conversation you have with a girl, remember what you did and how it worked out. If you can improve your technique even just a little bit each time… you’ll be killing it in no time. Once you’re in tune with who you are as a person, learn the best what the best things to say to women and you’ll be unstoppable…
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