No you go first…
What do you say to someone you love when it is a new feeling that you are just figuring out yourself?
Be open to vulnerability
The key is demonstrating your own vulnerability. One of the things that makes love beautiful is that it puts people in an incredibly vulnerable position. I think as we develop our masculine energy with a vulnerable side we become more attractive men in general.
As long as we can move toward falling in love with someone and be okay with the idea that maybe she won’t get there at the same time or she doesn’t think of us in that way we can be fine with such powerful feelings. Getting in touch with that raw energy that you’re experiencing and putting yourself in that vulnerable position can be an amazing experience. And obviously it’s heightened when she falls in love, too.
Tell her stories about your life that shows a vulnerable side that somehow overcomes challenges. Let her see that you have a side to you that is gentle and wants companionship. In time she will become sensitive to who you are as a man and what that could mean to the two of you as a couple. In this way she may or may not be open to learning how you feel about her.
This will allow you to be able to say something like, “You know, I feel like I’m falling for you and that scares me a little because it’s a place that I’ve never really been.”
Broaching the subject
You can broach the subject in a way that subtly lets her know of the direction you’re your heading, without letting her know that you’re already in love with her while letting her see that you’re actually scared about the entire process. Love is scary when we first get into it.
When you can demonstrate that you can feel vulnerable it actually gives her the freedom to be completely vulnerable, too. That’s a beautiful thing when we’re dealing with women. When she is able to express herself and her fears and the challenges that she’s experiencing you’ll find that her attraction for you will go to a new level. And the relationship that you build together will also go to a new level.
That’s a great way to broach the situation and get a sense of where she’s at. Then you can be open to just seeing how things go. If she lets you know that she’s also developing deep feelings for you, you can sort of get to the point where you can say, “What do you want to do? Is this something that you think we should be giving a trial? Are we falling in love?” If she’s comfortable with things as they are, you can know that at least you have clarity on what she wants and how she feels.
You can start to back off with the way that you feel about her. Being able to broach the subject can be a more powerful approach than just coming out and letting her know that you’re in love with her.
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