It’s finally THAT moment…
You are in the bedroom with a hot woman and things are heating up. Your heart is beating faster and your mind is racing, trying to figure out what will send this girl crazy.
You still think every woman is the same? You’re in for the SHOCK of your life.
When they've got *that* look in their eyes, you know you're on the right tracks
Remember: it’s not a matter of just learning a particular technique that turns women on. It’s more about the way you approach the situation in general that can see your sexual fantasies come to fruition. For many guys just like you, knowing what really turns women can be a bit of mystery. So here are a couple of great tips that you should consider when taking a girl to your bedroom.
Relax and enjoy yourself
Perhaps a very obvious point to make, but also a very important one to consider. You have to be relaxed and comfortable when you are saving sex to really start enjoying it. If you find yourself feeling uptight or stressed then this will reflect in your performance and is likely to dampen the mood.
It is a tremendous turn on to a woman to be in bed with a confident and relaxed person. This will give them the impression that you know exactly what to do and how to do it well. Your confidence could reflect back on her and influence her to let loose herself.
Feeling and touching
Good sex revolves around two people enjoying and embracing each other’s bodies. You can’t just think of quickly getting off all the time. Try to imagine what will feel good for her when you are touching her and then put it into practice. So for instance, if you are touching her inner thigh, think about what would really arouse you if someone was touching your inner thigh then try to replicate that on her.
All elements of touch are imperative to good sex and how to turn a woman on. You can experiment with a variety of things like kissing her neck, caressing her torso or nibbling her ears. Whatever it is, try to actually think of how it would feel on you and use this to help you’re your escalation on her.
If she is getting stiffer, she’s not being turned on. If she’s getting softer and moaning then you’re on the right path. You need to feel her out as much as possible and respond to what her body is telling you. This helps you to establish what’s best for getting her more aroused and will lead you into becoming more experienced in what turns a woman on.
You want to be feeling her movements, her breath, and her excitement. This is where I’d say you should not try and verbalize. Just really feel as much as possible and establish to connection without asking her, as it can break the mood a little bit.
Actively learning
You want to be as intuitive as possible. It is a little bit of a trial and error sort of situation. You try something and you feel her response. If it doesn’t work, you try something else or work on different areas of her body. As soon as you start to hear her breathing go up a little bit more or you start to feel her body kind of jolt with excitement, then you know you’re turning her on and you should keep that going.
Remember not all women are the same. Some women like quick and fast escalation and others prefer slower and more sensual sex. These reactions can also be different with the same girl on different occasions. It is important that you pay attention to her behavior and her body to ensure you are turning this woman on.
Be congruent
In order to turn a woman on, you should try and keep your interaction before, after and during sex to be in perfect harmony. If you took her out on a romantic date, ravaging her like an animal when you get to your place is incongruent and could be even scary for her. Take your time and be sensual with her when you get back to the bedroom. You can always change your approach depending on what her reactions are telling you.
The same way if you meet a girl at a club and barely talked to her and took her to yours, this is no time for 30 minutes of foreplay. It is all about the pace and excitement of the sex with no repercussions. Again, feeling and listening to her reactions both verbally and physically will help you gauge where to go next in turning a woman on.
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