That skin tight cat woman suit doesn’t make her feel hot all on it’s own she needs you to really let that sexy alley cat out of the cage and into your bedroom…
You know that Halloween is often a time for letting down a lot of the social barriers we put up, so it is a great time to do a little research on what women need.
What is it though that actually makes a woman feel hot?
How similar is it to what guys need, and how can a guy have a better understanding of it, so that he can think of new things to do rather than just do the clichéd things that he’s already heard of?
I think that when we talk about what makes people hot, it really is the same for women and men. It’s validation from the opposite sex. Its feeling wanted and being appreciated as a sexual creature.
So, what do women need and how can we make women feel sexier on this spooky holiday?
First and foremost, we can acknowledge the impact that they have on us.
When a cute girl walks down the street in a sexy costume, a lot of people will naturally stare at her, but then maybe they’ll start to question whether they should stare at all. And certainly, if she looks up, he’ll feel like he has to break eye contact; like there’s something wrong with him appreciating her beauty.
He’ll think that’s when it sort of becomes a little bit sleazy.
If you can become completely comfortable with the idea that you will look at that girl, appreciate her for her beauty, and that it is perfectly okay. Now, you are actually going to make her feel a little bit more sexy because you’re giving her the gift of letting her know that she’s turning you on. So I think just being able to visually and verbally appreciate girls is very important. On Halloween, you can start by admiring her costume and then proceed from there.
When you compliment her personally, women need you to tell her what it is about her that makes her sexy.
Maybe it’s her figure; the way she’s put together; but maybe it’s her energy or how comfortable she is with expressing her sexuality.
Whatever it is, being specific in telling a girl exactly what it is that turns you on and that you find sexy will help her in getting connected with her sexual energy. Women need to be connect to their sexual energy, if she is going to be happy with herself. Plus, because you highlighted it to her, now she recognizes that it has an impact on you and she will want to keep on doing that particular behavior.
Indeed, she’ll go out of her way to please you now that you’ve let her know how.
The third thing I would focus on when it comes to what we can do to help women feel a little bit more sexy, is that we can escalate on them.
If a girl feels sexy but there’s not really any progression there, and we’re not moving things in a more sexual direction – then she’ll basically start out feeling sexy, but that feeling will quickly dissipate.
So what she’s waiting for is for you to escalate.
Halloween is the perfect time because anyone who is out is looking to have a good time. Its a great excuse for how to turn her on.
You can frame it in a way that basically you’re escalating and trying to turn her on, because of how sexy she is. You can blame the physical escalation 100% on her. Make her responsible for it by saying, “If you weren’t so sexy, this wouldn’t be happening!”
Wearing a sexy costume is a good signal as to what women want, so keep your eyes open and let women know how hot they are this Halloween.
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